Never ever heard chrome is a problem for oxygen. Why should it be? Poseidon Xstreams are certified for 100% oxygen and are chrome plated all over. I don't believe the story "chrome is bad".
The ox valve is not lubricated? I can hardly believe that. Any O2 valve I know, any O2 regulator I know is lubricated. A non lubricated o-ring will not last very long in a 3'0000 psi valve, you add a failure point to your equipment.
Slowly opening, fine thread: A traditional valve will always open rather fast, no matter what kind of thread you have. You can try(!) to open the valve slowly, sometimes it works, sometimes it does not. If you want a slowly opening valve in every(!) situatiation you need a needle valve. No manufacturer produces needle valves for O2 diving cylinders. So this seems to be unneccessary.