Avic7:The prof talks at normal speed, but he throws out extra info during lecture that not on his notes. That means I am not getting all the info, and that causes me to feel anxious at times.Another thing that I want to improve is taking notes in class. Anyone have some useful suggestions?
Lots of excellent suggestions here.
As a fellow university student, I find that studying with just one or two other people is better than studying with a larger group. The fewer people there are, the easier it is to keep the conversation focused on relevant material. Find one or two smart, hard-working students in your class and ask if they would like to study together with you. Meet up and ask each other questions over the material and explain concepts to each other, even if you all already understand them. A lot of times you don't know what you do and don't know until you try to explain it, and it can bring to your attention areas you need to work on. You can also help each other with the things you don't understand.
For the things you're really having trouble with, go to the professor. From my experience, most will help you and will appreciate the effort. If the professor is unwilling to help, find a tutor.
As far as taking notes, it's really just a skill you have to develop. Ask your professor for permission to record the lecture. You can also compare notes with your study friends. Just make sure their information is accurate -- sometimes people write down the wrong stuff. If in doubt, consult the book or your professor.
Like a lot of people have already said, learn to manage your time, get enough sleep, go to class, and work hard. I, too, find it extremely helpful to "tutor" myself. Go over stuff in your head (or even out loud, when you're alone) while you're driving, taking a shower, eating, whatever.
After some trial and error, you'll figure out what works best for you. Good luck!
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