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fairbanksdiver:
And hey, if it makes you feel better, my Australian and Chinese guests tipped worse.

Wish I could say I found exceptions to sterotyping how my customers would tip... but I didn't.
Sterotyping...which means you are making a judgment call before you even talk/meet with them. I guess you could say pre-judging.

Does it make me feel better or worse, you posting your prejudice out on the web. Not really. You on the other had might want to go back and re-read what you posted.

fairbanksdiver:
I had a 15-top group of Chinese tourists... left me $3 on a $150 check. Left their lunch server $5, and left the dinner server $4.

Bartender and I served several rounds of drinks for 30 Australian tourists... made about 11 dollars between the two of us on $600 worth of alcohol.
Notice a common denominator in the two events?
 
ouch, Jeff, he is 22 ...be gentle

I think the Canadians have had about all they will take around here...
 
Hmmmm. It seems to me that there was a big problem calling a certain group of divers from a certain country, stereotyping as it was called, terrible divers. I wonder if the same applies to stereotyping tippers?
 
I am guilty. I make generalizations all the time..Why are half my neighbors driving around in surgical masks? would somebody please tell me? I saw it the other week in a certain foreign country too. all over the airport...had their kids wearing them also. I just want to KNOW.
 
catherine96821:
I am guilty. I make generalizations all the time..Why are half my neighbors driving around in surgical masks? would somebody please tell me? I saw it the other week in a certain foreign country too. I just want to KNOW.
maybe they have ugly noses.
 
Nope, they have 100 K cars and if they did they could get them fixed.
 
OK, here is one: is it okay to generalize if its a good thing about a certain ethinicity? Can you say....I love Australians, they really know how to have fun.
 
JeffG:
Sterotyping...which means you are making a judgment call before you even talk/meet with them. I guess you could say pre-judging.

Does it make me feel better or worse, you posting your prejudice out on the web. Not really. You on the other had might want to go back and re-read what you posted.

I did re-read what I posted.

"Wish I could say I found exceptions to sterotyping how my customers would tip... but I didn't. Used to make a game of predicting what the tip would be, and always provided the same excellent service to each table."

I suppose you could call it prejudice if you wanted to, but if I'm not letting my prejudice affect my actions, it's not really a problem, is it?

If I were thinking to myself "Aww great, it's a Canadian... this guy isn't going to tip me jack, so I won't pay as much attention to him as the American table next to him... they'll tip me better", then we'd have a problem. I was not advocating that position, as a careful re-read of my post plainly shows.

JeffG:
Notice a common denominator in the two events?

I suppose you're saying that the common denominator is me. My average nightly tip percentage was 24%, suggesting that most of my customers thought highly enough of me to tip well above average.

As I mentioned before, I put the same amount of effort into satisfying every table I was given. A solo diner, drinking water and ordering half a salad received just as much attention and service as the 12-top that ordered multiple rounds of drinks, appetizers, salad, desert, top of the menu entrees, etc. You'll find many servers who are disgusted when they receive one of the stereotypically lousy tables, but I never felt that way.

That doesn't mean the stereotypes aren't true though.

But... think what you want. I was trying to point out that there are many cultural differences when it comes to tipping. Canadians, as a whole, tip less than Americans do.

Might be 22, but I can defend myself =)

-Brandon.
 
Hey Brandon, I am not sure but I think Dennis just called us Americans bad divers!

and wow, you are defending yourself pretty well sonny-boy!
 
fairbanksdiver:
As I mentioned before, I put the same amount of effort into satisfying every table I was given.
Yes..."Its not me...its them". Makes the problem much easier to deal with on a personal level. Thats the insidious thing about the line between prejudice and discrimination.


fairbanksdiver:
That doesn't mean the stereotypes aren't true though.
They are not true. But that doesn't change the fact that you think they are true.
 

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