Pug,
Voluntary or not, if you accept a job/position, you need to live up to the expectation and not hide behind "oh.. I'm just a volunteer".
Since it's a volunteer position and you feel so strongly about how its a pain, why do you continue to do it? Why not make you point by not working at it any more? I don't get it. You mods make such a stink about those who complain, but you are no better or worse as participants. Sometimes, mods come off as holyer-than-thou.
Maybe if I just once actually saw you guys say "OOps! My mistake - I'm wrong", I'd have more sympathy. As a long time sports official, I learned that if I don't carry my position around as a suit of armour and am willing to admit to those I am charged to call their game when I have made a mistake, then I gain more respect from them and they are willing to allow me the occassional goof.
Think about it and instead of replying, see if you can't get something good from it.