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OK, I want to propose a hypothetical question. If I, at 5'6" 205 pounds, and another diver at 6'7" 205 pounds are wearing the same exact gear, including wetsuit, will approximately the same amount of weight work for both of us? If not, why not?
I'm not trying to prevent the need for a weight check, so you don't need to post "just do an in water weight check". I'm more academically interested in why the tall skinny guy I was diving with in Komodo could not stay submerged with 5 kg or weight, needing at least 6 kg, and I can dive without any extra lead, when we were both wearing new 3 mm wetsuits.
Buoyancy, is related to both volume and density. Just because you weigh the same dose not mean you both have the same density. It also dosen't mean that you displace the same amount of water. I'm not sure if it's possible to have the same muscle to fat ratio and weigh the same as a diver at 6'7". It may be possible but seems suspect.
Your idea about the suit may have some bearing. More neoprene means more weight. Does his suit have more material because of his extra height? Who knows? Different types of neoprene have different buoyancy characteristics too. Especially after they are compressed. Other factors could be a BC that was not fully deflated or his general comfort in the water.
Also for practical applications, divers have different lung volumes and different breathing "styles" for lack of a better word, that have an effect on their real world weighting requirements. Deeper breaths increase volume and buoyancy. Deeper breaths also seem to last longer, giving that buoyancy more time to affect you. Smaller breaths still increase it but to a smaller extent and over a shorter time so the change has less time to affect trim.
All things being equal, physics always wins. A set volume creates a set amount of buoyancy that has to be offset with weight or extra buoyancy to remain neutral depending on the density of the object displacing the water. The trick is to find out what's different. His density, yours, suit material, breathing volume ect, ect, ect.
For me, I'm 5'11" and 205 +/- lbs. In salt water, diving an old school plastic back plate and a steel 72 with no BC bladder, 2mm socks, Large SP Jet Fins, shorts, and no wetsuit, I need 10 lbs on my belt. Any less and I'm ok at the beginning of the dive but at the end I get floaty with every breath.
Add a 3mm 1 piece with a 3 mm hooded vest to that setup and the weight almost doubles. Not quite but close.