Some specifics:
1. Have your octo be a good breather that YOU would be comfortable breathing in 100' of water in a panic situation. None of that slimline crap. If it's a hard breather, or full of mud/sand, you're likely to have your buddy rip your primary out of your mouth. Then you get to breath the sand-filled hard breather.
2. Have all your stuff clipped to your body so you're not dragging it around on the reef, mud, etc.
3. Wear a mask with a black skirt so you don't get glare on your lens from the sun.
4. Get some real fins, not those crappy split fins that won't do you a damn bit of good in a current. Spring straps are good because they're fast on/off and durable.
5. Get your weighting correct. Don't overweight yourself, it makes you dangerous to you and your buddy.
6. Stop using your arms, use your legs!!!
7. Stop bicycle kicking, and stop kicking the ground.
8. Get hoses that are the right length. They shouldn't bow out like crazy, they should stay next to your body.
9. Learn some basic hand signals for gas remaining, turning a dive, using an SMB (you should have one of these and practice using it), aborting a dive, OK, etc.
10. Have a sharp knife or shears for cutting (titanium is good). Don't need to be scuba Rambo, but put it somewhere between your waist chin.
11. Always do a safety stop.
12. More crap is not better. Take what you need on a dive, and leave the rest. But take what you need.
13. Keep your inflator hose where you can reach it quickly. Don't have it floating all over the place. Bunggy it to a shoulder strap or something.
14. Get your gear serviced when its time, and take care of it between dives.
15. Learn how to use your computer. RTFM.
16. Have a decent light, and take it with you if you're going into low vis, deep, or at night. Learn to signal with it (OK, attention, etc.).
17. A wrist slate is nice for when you can't figure out what someone wants or want to convey something a little more complex.
18. Baby shampoo works great as defogger, and it's cheap.
19. Buy in bulk to get discounts on gear. And call around. Your local shop should price match.
20. Wear the right exposure suit, you will have more fun and be safer.
21. Ask experienced divers for gear suggestions, don't just buy whatever is in the shop.
22. 6' SMBs are a good size, and get a decent sized reel (100'+) to send it up on.
23. Gate clips only, no swing/suicide clips.
24. No shame in buying used, especially if you're not committed to diving yet.
OK, that's all I can think of right now. Hope that is useful.
---------- Post added July 23rd, 2013 at 07:16 PM ----------
Now that my backup kick is no longer unpredictably and spasmodically propelling me forward, I feel like a dive god.
Easy there grasshopper