1) can I use the 2 first stages even if they are different brands?
Yes, but it will need to be tuned to the medium pressure of that specific first stage. Or else you can either have it leaking or breathing poorly.
2) Have to convert to DIN, are all DIN conversion standard? meaning do they work on all brand first stages?
Not all DIN are universal. One DIN coversion may use across any model in the same brand. But you will find different thread sizes among the brands (and it's annoying lol). just get DIN conversion of the brand you are using. check aqualung DIN kit for US diver.
3) if re-using US diver first stage what second stage is suggested, I heard that the select one is average in performance.
anything that you have.
In alternative I'll purchase a second set scubapro. and keep the select as a stage bottle set for the future (who knows).
- it's better if you opt for this idea. maybe another mk10 d400 and keep select for stage.