You would only air share if both divers are above min gas............ If diver A is at min gas, and diver B is at min gas plus some useable gas then both divers A and B can breathe down divers B’s gas to min gas. At that point if either diver A, or diver B, have a complete equipment failure they have just enough gas for both of them to get home. Plus they have had a longer dive.
Your above statement contradicts itself, first you say both divers are above min gas and then you say A is at min gas and then B is at min gas plus some. I don't understand how diver B can be at min gas if he still has gas to share. He is either at min or he isn't. That's like saying I've got 3000psi but I'm at min gas so I'll just breath off yours.
For the sake of the extra few minutes your going to get I don't see the point, just do another dive or get a bigger tank. Next thing you know people will be sharing the same computer. (Or are you already?) There's a little thing called Murphy's Law and sooner or later it will sneek up on you and bite you right in the butt. You read about it alot in dive accident reports. It might just be that one diver goes into a deco due to previous dives or the current picks up and takes you further or makes you work harder then you expected or the diver who's tank you are breathing from forgets to check his gauge because you are both watching something really really cool.
Now I don't want to get into the whole log book debate again but if you are diligent and honest about what you write in your logs then I wonder what you put down if you share air, do you write that it was max depth 60 feet for 60 minutes on an aluminum 80 or do you write max depth 60 feet for 25 minutes on an aluminum 80. If it's the first then you are fooling yourself and the next dive op that takes you and your log book at face value and takes you on a dive that you say you can do but really can't. As we all know, not all dive ops are the same, some will pay more attention to you then others. So if you are comfortable sharing air with an air hog then it's your choice.
Remember that Murphy is on every dive with you and he hides in your gear bag.
As for going up alone, we all know people do it all the time but you have to be confident and comfortable doing it or you shouldn't do it until you are. Every dive site is different and conditions can change quickly, you have to take all this into account as well as your experience. Diving is a risky sport so just do what ever you can to minimize the risks to yourself and your buddy, if that means always going up together then so be it. Bad things happen all the time and most of the time we don't even see it coming, even to experienced people.
Just my $0.02, that would be Canadian $