Thanks for all the replies...I really didn't mean for my questions to be so complicated...no depth limits, no problem with the deeper dives, we love them as much as anyone...all we thought was wouldn't it be cool to spend more time getting to know the shallower ( I know, shallow is relative) reefs better...you know, the sites that you motor over on the way to the south end... anyway, from what I can tell, our options are...A. charter a boat to ourselves... B. stick with the larger boats and do "45 minute and out" dives on the "beginner" reefs...C. talk the other divers on the boat into two longer shallower dives rather than the "normal" one deep, one shallow trip...we've gotten to know the southernmost sites pretty well, just interested in getting to know the rest of the place a bit better... and two 90 minute plus dives sounds like a bunch of fun...that's all...Cozumel will always be one of our very favorite places, and I totally understand the reasons behind the way the operators there do what they do...again thank you for all your input...
I
completely get what you're saying!

I love to poking around a shallow reef for an hour or two...but Cozumel is known for it's spectacular reef-wall system and deeper dives, and that's what most people come here for. The current can also limit 'our' kind of diving.
As a solo diver I've come to accept that if I don't come with a group, or dive
every day of my vacation with the same OP, I should expect:
1) My dives will be to the same reefs/sites multiple times in a trip
2) I will not have the same DM twice
3) I should expect to be on the '1-day' boats filled with newly certified, discover scuba, and cruise ship people
4) I need to be satisfied with being underwater, and not think about what I could do with the 1500cf of air left in my tank
Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining! I understand
why these things happen, it's due to my change in diving habits not some oversight or slight by the OP. I love to be in the water, so no dive is a 'bad' dive, and I suppose I could hire my own DM to get in longer dive times, but I still might be going to the same reef over and over...
Bottom line.... I just enjoy the day and remember how lucky I am to be diving Palancar