As the thread evolved the spratman said he thought after having met them that John was aloof, so then we began talking John and first and second hand experiences people have had with him. I don't think it is a total high jack of the thread. A guy brings up the book, people talk about what they thought of the book and in the course of our conversation we start talking about what kind of man John is.
My friend forwarded me both sides of the email discussion with John and I found him to be engaging and gracious. He could have not replied at all, given a short answer, a rude answer, but instead he wrote back write away and engaged my friend in a conversation.
From the tiny bit I know of some of his dive adventures, I am not sure that I would ever follow in his steps and employ many of his practices or encourage others to follow suit, but if he ever came to my area, I would love the chance to meet him and get to know him.
Heck, if he ever comes to these parts I think the Dixie DIR Divas would have a big B-Q in his honor. As one might guess the Divas have been known to upset DIR and DORK alike.

I think we are more Diva than we will ever be DIR. The point is that people can have a wide range of diving practices and life experiences and still be gracious to one another and speak in a pleasant manner to one another about diving or any other subject.
Tonka, I almost feel that you sense you have a personal stake in this matter. As if you have been personally wronged. Has John wronged you?
Anyway, whether his book is true or not or some combination there of I do not know. But it does appear that he is a gracious person.
So let me just say to one and all, may you have MERRY CHRISTMAS, A HAPPY NEW YEAR AND MANY ENCOUNTERS WITH GRACIOUS PEOPLE WHETHER THEY DIVE OR NOT AND WHETHER THEY CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS OR NOT!
Twas the night before the dive, when all through the boat
not a creature was stirring not even a sea louse.
The tanks were all hung in the racks with care
In hopes that Posiden would soon be there.
The divers were nestled all snug in their beds
While visions of deep air and tri-mix danced in their heads
And dive master in his suit and I in my cap
Had just settled in for a long nights nap
When out on the sea arrose such a splatter!
I sprang from my bed to see what was the matter
Away to the port hole I flew in a flash!
Tore open the hatch and pushed away the sash!
The moon on the crest of new crashing wave
Gave the brightness of a Salvo 50 Watt can light
when what to my eyes should appear???
but a mini RB with 8 tiny tanks!
With a little old diver with was lively and quick
He said baby this thing breathes slick!
I wanted to try some said I would die!
With that thing in the water he could fly!
The circuit was it open or closed?
With it did breathe through the mouth or the nose?