The first post is like [reading] in a mirror. I've recently experienced almost the exact same issue and felt the same worrying feeling regarding my future advancement with diving. I think I just figured out what the issue was for me - trying to conserve air. JUST BREATHE!
That was the short version...If your interest is peaked, read on...till you get bored...then just ignore the rest and breathe
I've got 24 logged dives at this point (plus 4 pre-certification). I'm really getting interested in DIR gear and methods and trying to improve my diving. I'm taking a hard look at gear, trim, weighting, finning and...air consumption! I'm somewhat underwhelmed with PADI instruction (AOW + drysuit + nitrox). I have a fairly technical background in outdoor adventure and want to do SCUBA right!
The last 4 days I've done 2 tank dives, I've had bad headaches for about an hour after the 2nd dive (except the most recent day, which I'll describe). Usually, I'm OK until I surface and get out of the water then feel pretty terrible with a bad headache and even some nausea. I've been feeling kind of funky after the first dive too, but not funky enough to abort the 2nd dive (except the last one...which I'll describe!).
I've been at a comfortable temperature for each dive, but each of the last four 2 tank days have been in very different locations ranging from 49 to 84 degree water with the appropriate exposure protection for conditions. Each of these instances has also had a different assortment of rental gear. So I'm left with one controlled variable - me!
On my most recent 2 tank day I was trying to implement a tip that an instructor on my boat gave me for air consumption improvement: "Try to breathe in so slowly that you cant hear your breath." The first tank was a 59ft dive for 52min. After getting back into the boat I got the same symptoms but MUCH more severe. I was really disappointed and a little freaked out. I didn't know what was going on and if I could continue to enjoy diving. It was so bad, that at 40min surface interval when we were supposed to get back in the water, I asked them to give me another 20 minutes which on this day caused some logistical complications. At 60 minutes surface interval I was really on the edge of feeling OK to get back into the water but I had to make the call.
Eager to figure out what in the world was going on (and not believing an instructor who said it was probably the diesel fumes or alcohol consumption), I decided to get back into the water only if I could come up with something to change from the previous dive. Still thinking the problem was me, I recalled learning something about CO2 buildup from not breathing normally. So, I decided that I would at least start the 2nd dive but would completely forget about air consumption and suck down whatever my body requested. Additionally, I tried to maintain the same completely relaxed state that on the boat was helping me feel better.
I reserved the right to abort if I started feeling uncomfortable again...
It worked like a CHARM! I noticed myself continuing to improve from how I was feeling on board especially when I consciously relaxed every muscle in my head and face (a couple of times I imagined I was still on the boat with a headache and tried to relax my head/face in the same way - felt even better!). That dive was 54ft for 50min. I felt fine during the dive, after surfacing and after getting back into the boat. It was very clear to me I had found the source of my recent debilitating headaches.
I'm still going to work to improve specific aspects of my diving with every dive, however, my first two priorities for now are going to be to FORGET about BREATH CONTROL and REMEMBER to RELAX.