TS&M is absolutely correct and I'd like to add that with the diabetes it makes a big difference if it's type 1 or type 2. A non-insulin dependent type 2 diabetic doesn't have to worry about their blood sugar bottoming out to dangerous levels during a dive.
However, even an insulin dependent type 1 diabetic can still dive but it becomes a lot more complicated. They need to be well controlled, take appropiate measures to have a high enough blood sugar level to conduct the dive, monitor their blood sugar levels both pre and post dive, carry some form of glucose in case of emergency, and above all else, their dive buddy knows about their condition, knows what to watch for in a hypoglycemic episode, and knows what to do in the event one occurs.
The bottom line is that diabetes does not necessarily mean the end of the world with regards to diving.
As for your particular situation k4man, keep up with regular checkups and physicals. If you watch your weight and stay in reasonably decent shape you may never develop either of these conditions despite any genetic predisposition.