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@Murky Waters

Advanced has a mandatory deep dive to 30m no thanks ;)(not at this moment to scared)

Deep dives are fun in egypt but not so much where i dive.

Plus i already have signed up for a GUE fundies class next year.

@Buliwyf

Very good tip to practise those things whilst having a safety stop!
 
Hello everybody,
A few months ago things went wrong on a dive.
My mask flooded,i tried to stay calm to put my mask back on.
My buddy saw me struggling and wanted to help me but accidentaly pushed out my reg.
I panicked and went straight up.

Does anyone know if this feeling will go away if i will practise more. And just to continue diving.

My answer will be a lot like the others, but I feel I have a few things to add.

Often you will hear people say "you just need to dive more to get more experience, then ...". However, I think this is an oversimplification and it misses an important point.
A friend of mine very accurately said "There is a big distance between how easy it is to dive when everything goes smoothly to how difficult it becomes when things go just a little wrong".

This is very true. And an important implication of that is that diving in easy circumstances does not give you much experience in how to handle difficulty. Only difficulties will give you that experience. Therefore it is very easy to do 100 dives without improving your skills much unless you consciously focus on skills improvement.

You encountered some difficulties that you were not sufficiently trained to handle. And you now realize that you probably won't be able to handle a situation of similar difficulty the next time one occurs. Therefore your current anxiety is actually quite rational. It was your previous feeling of ease that was just a false sense of security.

Diving without a mask and recovering a regulator should be something that you can do comfortably and calmly. If you can't stay calm while doing that, then it is not safe for you to dive. The good news is that you can achieve that comfort by training.

Train in the pool or train in the sea at 2 meters depth. Find a buddy who also wants to improve his/her skills and train together.

Do this exercise with your buddy:

Firstly, establish neutral buoyancy and horizontal trim and hover facing each other about 50 cm over the pool bottom. Keep this position constantly while performing skills.
1. Remove and replace your primary regulator
2. Remove your primary regulator and change to your secondary regulator
3. Signal out-of-air to your buddy and have him donate a regulator to you.
4. Fill and empty your mask.
5. Remove your mask and hold it in your hand. Your buddy can grab your hand and point the thumb up or down to help you control your buoyancy. Replace your mask after a while of breathing calmly and controlling your buoyancy without the mask.

Repeat these skills as many times as it takes for you and your buddy to execute them perfectly. Don't be surprised if that means 10-20 dives. If you have a GoPro camera or similar, record video of yourselves so that you can see your improvements. Think up new challenges you can give to each other. It is a great idea if they involve doing tasks while subconsciously hovering in place. Do not underestimate how valuable it is to be able to effortlessly hover without thinking about it and doing other things.

When you master these skills - and with training you can - then your rational fear of being unable to handle a difficult situation underwater will be replaced with the confidence that now you can. And you know that you can because you have done it many, many times. Train hard, fight easy.

Happy training! It is also lots of fun :)
Mikkel

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Edit: While I was writing this, you posted "Plus i already have signed up for a GUE fundies class next year."
That is actually exactly the best thing you can do, and you might even recognize the 5 skills I list above. :-)
 
Yup, basic 5 helped me to get very comfortable under water. I practice them a lot.
 
I dive for 3 years now and have made about 100 dives so far...a few months ago things went wrong on a dive....after this dive i have made a lot of other dives but i notice that i am not so comfortable anymore.....I sometimes think i will have another sort of equipment failure,and i also am scared to dive deeper.

Welcome to your REAL comfort zone. :)

Nothing went wrong for a while, so you previously mistook uneventful dives as a mark of competency. When something finally do go wrong, it dented your confidence.

That's just an awakening. It' a GOOD thing. It's REAL experience. You learned something VALUABLE (if uncomfortable).

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As you can see from the graph.... with time, practice and patience your confidence WILL increase. Only this time, it will be a more accurate level of confidence in your actual abilities.

Most, if not all, truly advanced divers will attest to having a 'wake up call' along the path of their development. It can happen a few times...whenever confidence is ever allowed to outpace ability.

Have a read of: What is Diving Experience? and The Dunning-Kruger Effect and Scuba Diver Over-Confidence
 
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That this is an ongoing issue that is affecting your diving I'm going to go in another direction. Talk to someone to work through your anxiety about this. Not one of us. Is there a psychologist, psychotherapist, or even psychiatrist you can talk to?
You MIGHT be ok taking only the advice others have given you.

What happens if you have not identified the root cause of your anxiety and another small incident happens?

Will you be able to see what is happening and deal with it?

Or will you panic and make it much worse?

Will you still want to dive afterwards?

Any incident that starts to affect your ability plan, execute, and enjoy a dive is cause for action.
 
Jim Lapenta makes a good point. You may be able to help desensitize yourself by actually dwelling on the incident. Start at the beginning and in your head rewrite the script. In your mind's eye, see yourself calmly handling the issue. Over and over and over again. Then think of other incidents that could occur and mentally see yourself handling those as well.
 
Smooth practising of skills brings some benefit but it doesn't fully prepare for real situations. A buddy can contribute an element of reality. It is a kind of game when one partner "goes crazy", attacking his/her unsuspecting buddy and causing all kinds of "scenarios". This brings training as close to a real situation as possible. Here is an example of it. This really helps.
 
If it makes you more comfortable, consider strapping an extra mask to your leg. I have seen this.
 
Smooth practising of skills brings some benefit but it doesn't fully prepare for real situations. A buddy can contribute an element of reality. It is a kind of game when one partner "goes crazy", attacking his/her unsuspecting buddy and causing all kinds of "scenarios". This brings training as close to a real situation as possible. Here is an example of it. This really helps.

This is why the old school training "harassment" was done during the final pool sessions. These days however there's no time or inclination to perform such real world training. Someone may get frighten, hurt themselves in the pool and sue the instructor. Better to let them get frighten in a non-controlled open water environment and hurt or kill themselves. Then someone else can be sued.
 

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