I'm with Bob. The problem isn't the gear failure, it's the team failure.
When you dive with a single tank, your fallback is your buddy. That's the way it's taught in PADI classes, too -- first option is to end the dive if you are low on gas, second option is gas sharing ascent with buddy. But if your spare gas is 25 feet away and swimming away from you, you're forced further down the list of options, to things which are less desirable (like CESA, which is not something I ever want to have to do for real).
Perhaps the thing to do is have your wife try an exercise I did several years ago. Get 25 or 30 feet apart, and you turn your back. She can exhale and then stop breathing (simulating discovering the tank is empty when you try to inhale from it) and then start swimming to you. She has to reach you, get your attention, and get gas from you. I can GUARANTEE that, by the time she's done all that, she's going to be pretty air hungry and really glad to get that regulator.
The day I did that was the day I decided that, one way or another, I was going to have a buddy closer to me than that. (My husband and I didn't dive together again for almost six months.)
Oh, and issues like this are the reason that overhead environments aren't recommended for open water trained divers, using simple open water equipment. Every time you go through a swimthrough, you run the risk of having a problem while you're in it that might require an urgent ascent. That's why folks like Rick Murchison only consider something an appropriate OW diver swimthrough if you can see the exit before you enter.