You'd be surprised how much seeing that gauge will mess you up.
I was on a dive recently in what became absolutely terrible conditions (nature just didn't want us there) and we had to REALLY tap into that reserve third. I caught a glimpse of my buddy's gauge and seeing that certainly didn't help things. I can't imagine how it would feel if we were sharing gas.
For practice purposes, I suppose its one thing (still not needed), but in real life, you need to be heading for the door in the most expedient manner.
Ok, I can partially agree that it can cause some stress to see the gauge, on the other hand the reason of "partially agree" is that, like aa3753 posted, if the gauge shows enough gas, it actually can lower stress levels, but the main reason for using it in the drill, IMHO, is because of the point below:
1 - If you have more than one route choice, for example, you are under deco obligation in open waters and have an OOG situation, after sharing you have have 2 options, if you have plenty of air safety margin you can calmly go back to the ascent cable and start your ascent in a more safe manner, but if your safety margin of gas is short you may choose to deploy SMB and start ascent immediately, although not counting on the safety of an achored ascent cable. To reach that decision you need to consult your SPG and show your buddy so his aware of your choise and the reasonthat motivated it.
2 - If diving in a 3 divers team, common in caves and wreck penetrations, all members of the team, including the one not directly involved in the gas sharing, must be aware of the situation (this includes the gas pressure of the diver donating gas) to monitor and specially for the third diver to be prepared to share his gas as well. As there is one more diver to donate gas, the OOG diver shall not raise the stress level be looking at the SPG.
Of course, during a real situation, I agree that it is up to your judgement not to show the SPG during the share process, but I believe it is usefull to include in the drill to be prepared if you need, specially in the 2 situations described above.