Iruka
Contributor
It's not that difficult to offer suggestions without being rude to people. I had a diver last week who asked for about 8kg/16lbs of weight. Looking at her & her wetsuit, I said that she'd probably be okay with 6 or 8lbs....but let's start with 10lbs, and I'll carry another 6 with me, which I could give to her if needed. If she was too heavy even WITH the 10lbs, we could leave some weight at the bottom by the mooring, and pick it up when we came back. Rather than say she was WRONG, I gave her/us an option where we could adjust her weighting during the dive. Turns out 3kg/6lbs was just right for her.
With a lot of experience, hopefully a good guide will be able to provide suggestions when needed....but there are some who come across as "I'm the diving god, and all you mortals better listen to me, or you'll end up dead." Most customers will nod their head politely, but the advice being dispensed in "lecture mood" isn't always the best way to go about it. More than once, when on the same boat with a particular guide, my customers, evesdropping on one of his lectures will say "boy, I'm glad he's not MY guide."
Anyhow, the customers are (directly or indirectly) paying the guide, so he/she should keep that in mind. As someone earlier said, politeness & political correctness are not the same thing, and it doesn't cost any extra to be nice to people.
With a lot of experience, hopefully a good guide will be able to provide suggestions when needed....but there are some who come across as "I'm the diving god, and all you mortals better listen to me, or you'll end up dead." Most customers will nod their head politely, but the advice being dispensed in "lecture mood" isn't always the best way to go about it. More than once, when on the same boat with a particular guide, my customers, evesdropping on one of his lectures will say "boy, I'm glad he's not MY guide."
Anyhow, the customers are (directly or indirectly) paying the guide, so he/she should keep that in mind. As someone earlier said, politeness & political correctness are not the same thing, and it doesn't cost any extra to be nice to people.