Yep, same experience here years ago when I was looking. Some things never change.
Sure, that sounds great... My phone is 843-252-4500. Call or text me anytime. My name is SeaJay. Yes, even in real life.
I remember back in 2003 or 2004 - the better part of a decade ago - I was looking for a new BC and wanted to weigh the options including a backplate and wing. I could find no shop that carried them, and of course, since they didn't, according to them, backplates and wings were for cave divers and "weirdos." Most of those people are long gone with closed shops and bankruptcy and other issues - they really did me a disservice not showing me what I clearly wanted to buy. Idiots.
Anyway, I did find one shop in Walterboro, SC (about an hour north of me) that carried them, but they were much too busy to help me... They simply showed me a system and explained nothing. I did rent one, though, and took it to a local river to dive it and check it out. Honestly, I didn't see much difference in the way that it dove from any other BC at the time... But I could see the advantage of the modularity of it, so I purchased one from Extreme Exposure in High Springs, FL, on a trip to Ginnie Springs. They DID fit me properly - Doug (now the owner's brother in law and manager of the store) took his time with me and did a fantastic job fitting me and things really started to come together with the system.
Within a few months I was taking my first Fundies class (writeup here:
http://www.scubaboard.com/forums/basic-scuba-discussions/21992-dir-class-truth-comes-out.html ) and really learning to DIVE - with buoyancy control and precision that I'd never experienced before. Read the thread. You'll get a kick out of it.
Anyway, there is no way in heck I'd have been able to progress into the precision that I did without a rock-solid BC system that was easily adjustable in every way, equipped with a crotch strap, and had the stability and proper weighting of a backplate. To that end, I owe the very fact that I became a commercial diver to the fact that I was able to progress, and I owe the fact that I was able to progress to a properly fit backplate and wing.
I owe a properly fit backplate and wing to Doug at EE, and I owe knowing to ask about a backplate and wing in the first place to Scubaboard. Yes, then and now, dive shops do not tend to support backplates and wings - at least, not outside of cave country. The reasons are because there's not a lot of markup in them, they require a lot of personalized attention to be fit properly (most shops would rather just hand you an off-the-shelf BC and expect for you to fit yourself with a sloppier system), and of course, backplate and wing owners never need to buy another BC.
FWIW, I wrote about my experience choosing to dive a backplate and wing here:
DEEP SOUTH DIVERS - Your Underwater Specialists! Hope you'll read it... There's a lot of great info there, if I do say so myself, and helps to clarify the decision-making process much better than a shop lackey simply putting you in the most expensive BC he sells and asking you, "How does it feel?" Duh. A snowsuit feels really nice too... So do warm jammies. That doesn't mean they're gonna be a good choice in BCs.
Anyway, yes... Text me or call me. I may have a job to do in Savannah tomorrow, and/or you can come here to Beaufort if you'd like to stop by the shop (commercial workshop, not retail store). I can probably show you two or three different backplates and wings if you want to see different brand names, and of course, different sized wings, too.
Let me know.
If you bring your dive gear (whatever you've got), maybe we can even splash and do a dive or two.
SeaJay