UPDATE and QUESTION:
1) After talking to the instructor, I took wreck diving, fish id and drift diving as my electives. In hindsight, I would probably have taken night diving instead of the drift.
Overall, the amount of new knowledge I gained from the course was minimal, and I could have learned 95% of it by just reading the book, Adventures in Diving, and the doing some fun dives.
I suggest people here who decide to do the course just pick their electives based on what the best dives will be associated with those electives. Also, pick the night dive because those cost more than regular dives, so it's better to do it as part of the course.
The way I look it this now is that the course included 5 dives and cost $180 for me. Fun dives would have cost $17 ($25 for night). I would have done 5 dives anyway, so had I properly combined my course dives with dives I wanted to do anyway, I would have just paid approximately $90 extra for the AOW certification ($180 - $25 (night) - 4*$17 for regular dives). Unfortunately I was too eager to do the course, and therefore did some of the course dives in a strong current that therefore negated them as fun dives. Plus I skipped the night dive because I had done night dives already and therefore didn't think I'd learn anything new from it.
2) Question: I wanted to go to one site that was at about 45m, but the dive resort I was staying at would not take me because I did not have the deep diver specialty - they played the libaility issues card. Should I
a) Use another dive resort in the future, or
b) Pay for the deep diver specialty course (the dive resort I was using would charge $120 for that, which includes 4 dives - so it's about $90 on top of the dives that I would do anyway - is that a reasonable price?), or
c) Should I just go on to the next course - rescue diver (?) or whatever comes after AOW. Would that certify me to dive down o 45m or below?