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Hello everyone
This is a long post but I find that complex topics are better discussed when I provide detail.
I've always considered diving solo but never needed to.
I've fortunately established rapport with many regular divers and all the dive masters at the center I go to.
I like to explore the bush for little critters - muck diving.
While a lot of divers prefer to "complete the dive circuit" and see everything in that planned route, I don't mind not "finishing". What I mean by this is, the dive plan is to drop in here and ascend there.
I don't mind not ascending "there" because I'll launch my SMB and promptly be collected.
Same with circling around a pinnacle. Others want to do complete a solid 360, while I would be ok with a 270. Because I'll hunt/explore a good ten minutes if I find a nice patch of dense coral.
So I usually end up pairing with one of the regulars who knows my dive style and I also be considerate by not lingering too long. Most-times I find that I would have liked to spend a bit more time exploring that patch but, to be considerate, I move on.
I don't want to be "that guy". More importantly, I understand that we both want to derive fun from our dive, so compromises are natural. And whats nice is that they realize it and appreciate it.
From what I've gathered they enjoy diving with me because I'm very attentive to them. A lot of eye contact, the occasional, everything going well hand-gesture?
If I see my partner struggle with something, I'll turn around and watch them set it right - my positive body-language is reassuring.
Symbiotic I suppose.
By background, I'm a good diver I think. Been through a lot of different scenarios. Have about 500 dives and a rescue diver.
One time my partner got badly gouged by a sea urchin (she denied bumping into it, instead it came at her lol - she was joking).
So I gestured to her that I'd take of it, I gestured that I'd deflate her BCD a little so that shes not too neutrally buoyant, and then started taking out the spines.
And of we went, five minutes later she gestured that she wasn't feeling well and wanted to ascend. So I launched my SMB for her and handed it to her. We were three divers, so she gestured for the two of to carry on.
Another time during a wall dive, we got caught in a massive current against us. I asked my buddy if we should retrace our steps and go back. He gestured no its fine and we carried on swimming against the current. I noticed he was struggling - and that means hes probably stressed, definitely going through more of his air than usual and may not end well. So I gestured we go with the current.
Would've been nice to ascend where we all planned to, but so be it.
My point with the little anecdotal stories is that I can assess a situation and try to handle it.
And other than a handful of regulars, most divers I dive with are good divers but I don' get the vibe that they're very aware.
To give an example of the handful that I know are aware.
One time we were diving the usual dive spot - a wreck at about 31 meters (100 feet), we entered from the starboard side, the end of it. Near the motors. There was a strong current that left us breathless till we got to the anchor line at the front. We decided to wait a few minutes and catch our breath. We did but not only was there a current but the surface was choppy.
Anyways we descend and reach the wreck, but even the descent was a struggle, there was a strong current. So strong we had to heave at the line to go down.
At the bottom, I wasn't my usual self. Rummaging through patches of soft coral or gleaming at what-appears-to-be-nothing with my magnifying glass. I was anxious but not enough to abort the dive. I did a bunch of math in my head, remembered important dates, thought about my schedule for next week. Yep, did them all. So no reason to abort. Decided to just dive neutral and wait it out.
Ten minutes into the dive and suddenly my partner is literally a meter away from me and appears adamant about keeping this new-found distance. Gestured to him if everything is okay? He said yes and asked me the same. Alright I thought. Maybe hes not super comfortable but comfortable enough to continue the dive. No reason for me to abort the dive. A little after that I was okay and carried on as I usually do. Peering and peeping. Like, a slightly less obsessive, Captain Ahab, trying to conquer my white whale. Abbreviating any obsession while having a white whale is healthy in my opinion.
Anyways, on the boat. He tells me he noticed I wasn't my usual self and decided he wanted to swim nearby to me. At least till I started diving as I conventionally do.
This to me is a perfect partner. Someone who not only understands you, but can detect deviations and act on them. What a great guy.
To clarify, I in no way depend on my partner or expect anything (much) out of my partner.
My policy is to remain aware, calm, and quickly assess any situation to make a good decision.
You could say I treat all my dives as solo dives - the dive partner is there for two things only (hopefully).
To supply me with air in the event that my regulator fails and I run out of air prematurely, and to drag me back to the surface in the event that I pass out.
So, just two things, give me air or return me to the surface if I've passed out. Both unlikely, but not impossible.
So, with solo diving, I have redundant air, one qualm is now remedied, what about if I pass out during a solo dive?
Please don't say its not going to happen. Yes, I know, it probably won't happen but it can happen.
Also, if I do decide to solo dive. It won't be somewhere I've never been or on an international trip. It would 100% be in the sites I've dived hundreds of times.
And the majority of these sites are no more than 300 meters away from the shore.
The argument that I can pass out during normal daily activities, such as while driving or even riding a motorbike true but not as fatal. I'm still in society - someone will eventually find me and help.
But passing out underwater is...
So how are you mitigating or handling this element?
I am genuinely curious and grateful for your thoughts.
This is a long post but I find that complex topics are better discussed when I provide detail.
I've always considered diving solo but never needed to.
I've fortunately established rapport with many regular divers and all the dive masters at the center I go to.
I like to explore the bush for little critters - muck diving.
While a lot of divers prefer to "complete the dive circuit" and see everything in that planned route, I don't mind not "finishing". What I mean by this is, the dive plan is to drop in here and ascend there.
I don't mind not ascending "there" because I'll launch my SMB and promptly be collected.
Same with circling around a pinnacle. Others want to do complete a solid 360, while I would be ok with a 270. Because I'll hunt/explore a good ten minutes if I find a nice patch of dense coral.
So I usually end up pairing with one of the regulars who knows my dive style and I also be considerate by not lingering too long. Most-times I find that I would have liked to spend a bit more time exploring that patch but, to be considerate, I move on.
I don't want to be "that guy". More importantly, I understand that we both want to derive fun from our dive, so compromises are natural. And whats nice is that they realize it and appreciate it.
From what I've gathered they enjoy diving with me because I'm very attentive to them. A lot of eye contact, the occasional, everything going well hand-gesture?
If I see my partner struggle with something, I'll turn around and watch them set it right - my positive body-language is reassuring.
Symbiotic I suppose.
By background, I'm a good diver I think. Been through a lot of different scenarios. Have about 500 dives and a rescue diver.
One time my partner got badly gouged by a sea urchin (she denied bumping into it, instead it came at her lol - she was joking).
So I gestured to her that I'd take of it, I gestured that I'd deflate her BCD a little so that shes not too neutrally buoyant, and then started taking out the spines.
And of we went, five minutes later she gestured that she wasn't feeling well and wanted to ascend. So I launched my SMB for her and handed it to her. We were three divers, so she gestured for the two of to carry on.
Another time during a wall dive, we got caught in a massive current against us. I asked my buddy if we should retrace our steps and go back. He gestured no its fine and we carried on swimming against the current. I noticed he was struggling - and that means hes probably stressed, definitely going through more of his air than usual and may not end well. So I gestured we go with the current.
Would've been nice to ascend where we all planned to, but so be it.
My point with the little anecdotal stories is that I can assess a situation and try to handle it.
And other than a handful of regulars, most divers I dive with are good divers but I don' get the vibe that they're very aware.
To give an example of the handful that I know are aware.
One time we were diving the usual dive spot - a wreck at about 31 meters (100 feet), we entered from the starboard side, the end of it. Near the motors. There was a strong current that left us breathless till we got to the anchor line at the front. We decided to wait a few minutes and catch our breath. We did but not only was there a current but the surface was choppy.
Anyways we descend and reach the wreck, but even the descent was a struggle, there was a strong current. So strong we had to heave at the line to go down.
At the bottom, I wasn't my usual self. Rummaging through patches of soft coral or gleaming at what-appears-to-be-nothing with my magnifying glass. I was anxious but not enough to abort the dive. I did a bunch of math in my head, remembered important dates, thought about my schedule for next week. Yep, did them all. So no reason to abort. Decided to just dive neutral and wait it out.
Ten minutes into the dive and suddenly my partner is literally a meter away from me and appears adamant about keeping this new-found distance. Gestured to him if everything is okay? He said yes and asked me the same. Alright I thought. Maybe hes not super comfortable but comfortable enough to continue the dive. No reason for me to abort the dive. A little after that I was okay and carried on as I usually do. Peering and peeping. Like, a slightly less obsessive, Captain Ahab, trying to conquer my white whale. Abbreviating any obsession while having a white whale is healthy in my opinion.
Anyways, on the boat. He tells me he noticed I wasn't my usual self and decided he wanted to swim nearby to me. At least till I started diving as I conventionally do.
This to me is a perfect partner. Someone who not only understands you, but can detect deviations and act on them. What a great guy.
To clarify, I in no way depend on my partner or expect anything (much) out of my partner.
My policy is to remain aware, calm, and quickly assess any situation to make a good decision.
You could say I treat all my dives as solo dives - the dive partner is there for two things only (hopefully).
To supply me with air in the event that my regulator fails and I run out of air prematurely, and to drag me back to the surface in the event that I pass out.
So, just two things, give me air or return me to the surface if I've passed out. Both unlikely, but not impossible.
So, with solo diving, I have redundant air, one qualm is now remedied, what about if I pass out during a solo dive?
Please don't say its not going to happen. Yes, I know, it probably won't happen but it can happen.
Also, if I do decide to solo dive. It won't be somewhere I've never been or on an international trip. It would 100% be in the sites I've dived hundreds of times.
And the majority of these sites are no more than 300 meters away from the shore.
The argument that I can pass out during normal daily activities, such as while driving or even riding a motorbike true but not as fatal. I'm still in society - someone will eventually find me and help.
But passing out underwater is...
So how are you mitigating or handling this element?
I am genuinely curious and grateful for your thoughts.