well everyone... after reading and reading and reading here is what i believe would be best for me. if you believe something should be changed out, just point it and please tell me why. everyone has helped a lot and i greatly appreciate it!!!
Dive Rite stainless steel Backplate
OxyCheq Mach V Signature Wing
2- Stainless Steel Cam Latch Tank Strap
Dive Rite Deluxe Harness
Dive Rite 2 Inch Crotch Strap W/Scooter Ring
2-Scuba Sex Bolts
OxyCheq Mini Single Tank Adapter
2- XS Scuba Weight Pocket
Dive Rite stainless steel Backplate
OxyCheq Mach V Signature Wing
2- Stainless Steel Cam Latch Tank Strap
Dive Rite Deluxe Harness
Dive Rite 2 Inch Crotch Strap W/Scooter Ring
2-Scuba Sex Bolts
OxyCheq Mini Single Tank Adapter
2- XS Scuba Weight Pocket