rainbowangel
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My husband and I just passed our written OW tests last week. And last weekend went to the pool for a final practice session before we leave this weekend on our trip for our OW checkout dives.
Up until this last pool session, my hubby and I have both been completely comfortable in the water, no freak-outs or problems with any of the required skills. We go to the pool twice a week to practice (once during our class, and then once to practice what we went over in the class). We have always been trying to sneak something up on the other to make sure we both were comfortable with all our skills and wouldn't scare/freak out easily.
However, things changed during our last practice session at the pool. Trying to surprise me, my hubby randomly swam up to me while I was practicing removing and donning my gear underwater and gave me the "out of air" signal - and out came his reg. My octo came out and I handed it over to him, but in my hurry, I accidentally handed it to him upside-down. He didn't notice this either and took it to breathe from. I was about to reach over to grab his BC strap, so we could practice our sharing air ascent when he suddenly spit out my octo and bolted for the top. I tried to grab his BC to stop him, but I missed and it was too late for a second attempt, he was gone.
Afraid that something really was wrong I immediately ascended to check on him. When I asked him what had happened, why he'd shot for the top, he said he'd sucked water instead of air because the octo was upside down. His reg had remained easily within his grasp, resting over his shoulder the entire time... I asked him why he didn't simply switch back to it... And he said that he didn't know. Not only that, but he shrugged it off, like it was no big deal...
To me, however, it was a big deal. All I can think of is "What if that happens on our checkout dives when we're at fifty or more feet?" When I tried to talk to him about it... all he did was get angry with me because he didn't want out OWI to overhear what had happened (when I think our OWI should KNOW, so he could give advice or at least be aware of what happened in case stupid me accidentally gives him the octo upside down again on our checkout dives). He continues to act like it's no big deal and that I'm seriously over-reacting.
I was hoping to get some second, impartial opinions... Am I over-reacting? Or shouldn't he be brushing it off? I mean, I hope he'd have more sense than to dart up from 50 feet just because he got a mouthful of water.... but then he said he wasn't thinking at all when he did it in the pool... so I don't know.![Frown :( :(](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
Thanks for any advice anyone may have.
Up until this last pool session, my hubby and I have both been completely comfortable in the water, no freak-outs or problems with any of the required skills. We go to the pool twice a week to practice (once during our class, and then once to practice what we went over in the class). We have always been trying to sneak something up on the other to make sure we both were comfortable with all our skills and wouldn't scare/freak out easily.
However, things changed during our last practice session at the pool. Trying to surprise me, my hubby randomly swam up to me while I was practicing removing and donning my gear underwater and gave me the "out of air" signal - and out came his reg. My octo came out and I handed it over to him, but in my hurry, I accidentally handed it to him upside-down. He didn't notice this either and took it to breathe from. I was about to reach over to grab his BC strap, so we could practice our sharing air ascent when he suddenly spit out my octo and bolted for the top. I tried to grab his BC to stop him, but I missed and it was too late for a second attempt, he was gone.
Afraid that something really was wrong I immediately ascended to check on him. When I asked him what had happened, why he'd shot for the top, he said he'd sucked water instead of air because the octo was upside down. His reg had remained easily within his grasp, resting over his shoulder the entire time... I asked him why he didn't simply switch back to it... And he said that he didn't know. Not only that, but he shrugged it off, like it was no big deal...
To me, however, it was a big deal. All I can think of is "What if that happens on our checkout dives when we're at fifty or more feet?" When I tried to talk to him about it... all he did was get angry with me because he didn't want out OWI to overhear what had happened (when I think our OWI should KNOW, so he could give advice or at least be aware of what happened in case stupid me accidentally gives him the octo upside down again on our checkout dives). He continues to act like it's no big deal and that I'm seriously over-reacting.
I was hoping to get some second, impartial opinions... Am I over-reacting? Or shouldn't he be brushing it off? I mean, I hope he'd have more sense than to dart up from 50 feet just because he got a mouthful of water.... but then he said he wasn't thinking at all when he did it in the pool... so I don't know.
Thanks for any advice anyone may have.