Here is the first logical failure, and an indication of a lack of understanding of proper procedure.
And here is the second, illustrating WHY the first is wrong.
The OOA diver NEVER follows. He is ALWAYS in the lead, whether in a restriction single file, or when swimming side by side.
When in the open (enough room for side by side), the OOA diver is slightly ahead of the donor, and the donor is in touch-contact (holding the tricep) to provide forward/stop and directional information. The excess hose is coiled once and held by the OOA diver in the left hand.
If the OOA diver is trailing, then it is true that the donor may not know immediately. This could be fatal in a low-viz situation in an overhead. This is why the OOA diver leads. He will not swim away from his air, and if he is in the lead, his air can not swim away from him.
If, for some reason, he DOES drop the reg, the donor is going to see it unless it is zero-viz (and then color doesn't matter) and will be able to retrieve it and hand it back.
This applies whether swimming or scootering. When scootering, the OOA diver drives and the donor tucks in behind and is towed, even in open water.
This goes back to DIR being more than simply equipment. It is equipment, and it is procedure. Equipment is the easy part... anyone with a thousand or so on the Visa can get the equipment part squared away.
Without the proper procedures, the equipment matters not... the diver is not DIR, and is potentially at greater risk if misusing the equipment as indicated in your example.