Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Do you think I should request some kind of imaging to be done?
oh and by the way I am a women not a man.....
Far more important that requesting a specific test is that you find a physician with experience in this field who has had the chance to examine you.
Is the doctor that yo are working with an ENT doctor who specializes in ear problems (an otologist)..? If not, and if you tell me where you are writing from (here or by PM if you prefer), I may be able to give you a local referral.
Good luck!
Mike