Why do y'all seem to have balanced valves? I have a very simple unbalanced valve that I bought from a Decostop member. It works just fine. What advantage does a balanced valve have?
It's easier to use a balanced valve. In deeper waters, if you haven't "primed" the system, so to speak, it can be very difficult to get flow started through an unbalanced system.
It is extremely bad for your body's plumbing to have back pressure from trying to pee, and can lead to infections, injuries, an air bubble going back "up" the plumbing, etc.
Balanced valves allow inside the suit air pressure to help equalize the flow pressure. I often don't have to pee at the start of the dive, but during the BT, the need may strike... and it's never a problem (well, unless the hose is kinked. Ouch.)
I strongly prefer the newer generation of one-piece balanced valves from Halcyon, OMS, and Dive Rite over the old style "T" connection types. The new ones are much smaller, and without the annoying inside T piece, there's nothing to get caught up in the fabric and suit pieces inside the drysuit.
BTW - someone suggested cutting a piece of tubing to help install the valve. Try a spent .45 shell casing and a block of wood instead. The flat back of the empty shell makes a great surface to hit, and it drives right through the material really easily.