The desire to have full lungs will always be there. Always. It's why anxious or scared divers tend to be floaty because the higher your anxiety, the fuller you want to keep your lungs. However, the more you work at it, the easier it becomes. I no longer have to 'think' of where to pause. After decades of working at it, it's become rather automatic... unless I get anxious.
CAVEAT: again, never hold your breath. Keep your glottis open at all times. This allows bubbles to freely escape as you ascend rather than injuring your lungs.
I believe that a short pause after inhalation is more efficient for gas exchange. This is the opposite to normal breathing pattern on land. Do not hold your breath and keep your epiglottis open.
@rsingler ?
Two competing issues here.
From a buoyancy control standpoint,
@The Chairman is spot on, and excessively full lungs can be a big contributor to being "floaty" at the end of a dive with an empty tank. Your working lung volume controls
six pounds of buoyancy from moment to moment, which is why proper breath control is so important when cruising in on that fire coral for a photo, or during the safety stop when buoyancy changes rapidly with small changes in depth.
But
@scubadada is also correct.
During a dive the best way to reduce your SAC and improve dive duration is to optimize elimination of CO2. And the way to do that is to 1) consciously slow your rate of breathing; 2) make a full inhalation; and 3) pause
briefly at end inhalation to allow CO2 exchange in your lungs before...4) a
full exhalation to dump that CO2, and a small partial inhalation to resting lung volume.
The whole purpose of this slightly unnatural pattern is to
minimize dead space ventilation, which is just a fancy term for what happens when you take small shallow breaths trying to "not use so much gas". Since you are breathing part of the same "dead" air back and forth in your large bronchial passages with those shallow breaths, your CO2 rises because your alveoli are not being effectively ventilated. When CO2 rises, you cannot help but breathe more frequently, and if your shallow pattern continues, you just waste tank gas.
Of course, taking this to an extreme is "skip breathing", where you have plenty of oxygen at depth (since those needed molecules are packed in there double or triple thickness at depth). Since you have plenty of oxygen, you don't pass out. But since you are hypoventilating, you'll end the dive with a screaming headache to complement your nice low SAC. And in an emergency, your already elevated CO2 may kill you when you start making even more with effort.
And, again, ending the dive with a full set of lungs by overdoing the inspiratory pause will bring you right back where you started with too much buoyancy.
So...it's complicated. Just takes practice.