It's more like learning to commercial dive. You can read it all, and train in the pool, and do drills in 40 feet, but until you are there in real life conditions with a mentor who is teaching you the tricks of the trade, you don't get to benefit from someone else's experience. Stupid little things like long hose stowing and deployment, SMB, liftbag, and reel use, line drills for caving and wrecking, drysuit use for extended deep dives, and stuff like that will mess you up. If it were only a matter of gas planning, blending, and management, I'd throw you a hearty hello. It's all the rest of the crap that goes with Scuba where narcosis is a real issue, you have a buddy, but not necessarily a tender who might or might not be paying attention to you, You have no coms with someone who isn't impaired, There isn't necessarily a standby diver who can throw on a hat and come get you, no one is pumping nice warm water into your suit to keep you warm.
Don't get me wrong, commercial diving is far harder physically and mentally than recreational trimix diving, but OSHA builds safeguards into the program to keep you alive. You know as well as I that some companies (not Oceaneering or Cal-dive) don't follow exactly every OSHA regulation, and without OSHA, there would be far more injuries than there are. We do this scuba thing for fun, with very little oversight. To me, trimix diving on open circuit is all about the little things, because the big things were taken care of back in training.