OK, here's some truth for 'ya.
There is no such thing as an "O2-compatable" HP seat. It does not exist.
"O2 compatable" means that it will NOT ignite or support combustion at any reasonable combination of working pressure and achieveable temperature in the intended service at the intended FO2.
ALL HP in regs made today seats will flash if abused. ALL! This is because they are all made out of materials that WILL burn in pure O2 at even 1 ATM. Don't believe me? Cool. Take an old seat, stick it on a safe surface (e.g. welding brick), take a welding torch and turn on only the O2, place said stream of O2 over the seat and then attempt to ignite the seat using a common butane lighter. BE CAREFUL DOING THIS! It will go POOF! Kids, don't do this where you can get hurt (e.g. on a flammable surface!)
Ditto for Viton and EPDM O-rings, or for that matter, flourocarbon materials. The ugly fact is that flourocarbon materials (which includes Viton), WHEN they decompose, produce really nice byproducts like phosgene. Yeah, that's the same stuff the Germans gassed people with in WWI.
Note that light AIRCRAFT, which frequently have pure O2 systems running around (especially those without pressurized cabins!) use BUNA O-rings.
Now that's at ONE ATM. Wanna try it at 200 ATM? Uh huh.
Now why doesn't it happen OFTEN? Because seats have an adiabatic expansion happening right next to them, which makes them COLD. BUT, when you turn ON a valve, the seat is slammed shut AND you get an immediate adiabatic HEATING spike. If you do it with short hoses (little reaction time for the seat to slam closed) or worst of all, NO hoses (e.g. a reg with all the port plugs in) it'll blow reliably if you slam a "fast" valve open.
That's how they ignite and flash. Contamination just makes it more likely to happen, but I assure you that I can ignite the seats used in every reg I've seen so far.
So, when you turn ON an O2-rich bottle, hold the purge of the reg depressed. Now you have FLOW across the seat surface which produces adiabatic COOLING, and you are much less likely to get a flash-fire.
Can it still happen? Yep. Your enemy is adiabatic heating. To have a fire you need fuel, oxygen and heat. You always have fuel in a regulator, because ALL of the soft materials that seats and O-rings can be made of WILL combust or decompose if they get hot enough in an oxygen atmosphere. You have lots of oxygen. The ONLY thing under your control is heat.
This is why you don't slam valves open.
BTW, regs made of anything other than Brass (specifically, Titanium and Aluminum!) are unsafe in high FO2 atmospheres. Titanium in particular burns like hell in oxygen. Aluminum medical O2 regs were recalled a few years ago because a number of flash-fires occurred in them - duh on the manufacturers - aluminum will burn quite happily in a high FO2 atmosphere; you just have to get it hot.
BRASS, on the other hand, will NOT burn up to about 10,000 psi of 100% O2! It is therefore the only reasonably-safe material to use for a deco reg.