So far I like my
O'Neill Specialist 3mm compressed neoprene drysuit very much. The only other drysuit I've used is my Bare Nex-Gen Pro bilam suit, which works fine too, but the O'Neill is warmer, more flexible and I need less air in it because it fits snugger and requires thinner undergarments.
The neoprene neck seal is warmer and more comfortable than latex but takes a little longer to put on because you have to turn the smooth side back in, which will be difficult to do if I ever start to use dry gloves that go on first.
I'm still making up my mind about the forearm dump. I think the shoulder dump is easier and more automatic because it takes less movement to elevate your left shoulder than to raise the whole arm. On the other hand the forearm dump works fine too and I feel that I have more control with it because I can see exactly how much bubbles come out. Some people say these dumps suck because you end up unintentionally dumping your suit on valve drills and such, but that's not an issue for me because I just turn the valve all the way down during the main portion of the dive until we start the ascent or unless I need to dump some gas for some other reason. Another thing to note is that I don't have space for my wrist slate on this drysuit because of the forearm dump.
I have neoprene booties on both drysuits which go well with snug fitting Chuck Taylors that I lace up real tight so there's no room for excess gas in the feet (no floaty feet). And the latex wrist seals on both suits have been fine, though I haven't tried neoprene seals (I assume they would be warmer and tougher).
I have managed to backzip myself closed and back open again, but it was a lot of work and I only did it once because I was afraid of damaging the zipper. Better let your buddy or someone on the boat do it. If you plan to solo dive then I'd get a front zip suit instead.
Now I'm at almost exactly at the upper end of the height, weight, etc measurements for this suit (stock size L), so it's a snug fit but in a good way and loose enough that I can still fit a thin polartex base layer and xerotherm arctics under it (both body hugging undergarments for me). Maybe if I were an inch shorter it would be perfect because right now there's some tension when I lift my arms up (more than with a tight 7mm wetsuit) - for example turning the neck seal in takes extra effort because the suits pulling my arms down while I do it, but I don't mind too much - at least it stretches unlike shell suits and in the end my reach is just as good as in my 7mm wetsuit except that it takes a little more force and effort. i.e. no problems reaching the valves unlike in the Bare (though I'm told it was lack of technique in the Bare) and on the surface I had no problems raising my arms in it.