I agree. I used to dive deep wrecks in cold dirty water and based on what you described and your failure to plan for a very predictable problem of not being able to find the upline, I honestly do not think you were qualified to be doing the dive. Certainly not going to the bottom in 130 to see a prop along with a "third wheel" who doesn't sound like he was on board with the dive plan.
If you felt narced at 100 feet and were having trouble finding your way (or predicting what would happen when you made a free ascent) you have no business diving to 130 ft to see the prop. I think you should continue to think more about problem scenarios and get used to narcosis a little before you jump off the deck and head for the sand.
Sounds like you are doing very challenging diving with very little experience.