As for myself, I don't mind diving with a "newbie" considering we were all there at one time. Being that I only have 25 dives under my weight belt I consider myself to be quite the newb. I believe the overall like and dislike refers to those that are irresponsable, arrogant, and completely careless of the situation at hand. Considering the risk of what "may" happen, it is no place to act the fool. The only way anyone can become a better diver is experience, knowledge, gained by both a book and more importantly an experienced diver. Books to me gave me the overall idea of what "should" happen, while diving with an experienced diver, well that is a learning adventure all of it's own. Nothing better to learning than seeing it first hand.
So I guess it is that if you do your best to learn from each dive, diver, and situation and you let those around you know that you are new, I have no doubt that many will be happy to help bring another comrade into the deep blue. Some may agree with my post...others may not want me to buddy with, well that is a situation that I will take care of when it is presented to me.
Relax, remember the lessons, pay close attention to those around you, and learn what you can. Beyond that, enjoy yourself to the fullest whilst keeping a clear, open mind and a watchful eye to your surroundings.