I don't know about max I recommend, per se. It depends on beam angle and the amount of spill. Raw lumens (to the extent various mfgs even measure the same way, which is a whole different topic) is only part of the equation. With that caveat, I'd say that with a narrow-ish beam, you'd want no less than a couple of hundred (which is plenty most of the time) and there's no need for anything beyond what you'd get from the plethora of 600-ish lumen lights like the DGX600.
I use the DGX light because they are cheap, bullet proof and great backups for my non-recreational dives. May be a little overkill for a clear water night dive. It'd be perfect if they had lower power modes.
My recommendation? Look at a Kraken NR-650. I have several buddies that use them and they are good stuff. About the same price as a DGX600, a little less bulky and they offer several power modes, so you can dial it down if you want. The 600 is either on or off, full blast.
Another recommendation: most of the lights that run on 18650 cells ship with 2600 mAh cells of "okay" quality. Do yourself a favor and get a couple of better Panasonic 3400 mAh cells from a REPUTABLE seller like Mountain Electronics. There are multiple threads about 18650 cells so I won't go into all of that except to tell you to avoid anything from "trustfire" and be aware that there is lots of scamming and puffery so you can't just buy off Amazon and hope for the best. But, if you take the time to do your homework and get a good 3400 mAh cell, you'll get significantly better run times.