Leslie, I was just about to call you back, but I'll respond here instead.
I haven't had DUI do my neck seal, so I can't be positive in this response....
That said, if they have a relatively stretchy neoprene, it's really not that bad. Sure, I have to stretch it to get it over my head, but then it fits nicely around my neck. I have Gamble make it an inch (maybe an inch and a half) or so smaller than my neck circumference. As long as the neoprene is stretchy enough, it's not an issue to get it over my head. Gamble once used a less stretchy neoprene and I couldn't get it to stretch over my head without cutting it scary large (it did leak a little), but he took care of it for me right away.
I'm inclined to say that the neoprene would probably work fine for you....but I'm also a bit hesitant with your Fundies class coming up so soon. If you had had time to send it to Gamble, I know he's already got the pattern made for my drysuit, and I imagine yours would be the same since we dive twin drysuits
Ask DUI what kind of turn around time they'd have if the seal did not fit you (also make sure that they would not charge you to replace something that does not work...). If it would be sufficiently quick (like you could drive it down to SD and have them fix it in a few hours....and then let it cure for a day or two before you tried it on), I'd recommend trying the neoprene. If not, maybe stick with latex this time and send it to Gamble later on.