Sorry to hear that the diver who received CPR didn't have a good outcome. It's wonderful that you were able to help out. Everyone who dives should be CPR-certified. I highly recommend taking a rescue dive class once you get more experience (50-100 dives?).
With regard to a dive computer keeping you safe, I had the same sentiments as aquaregia. Some naive divers are under the impression that a computer keeps them safe. That's a fallacy. Computers just make multi-level diving more convenient. For the vast majority of recreational OW dives, you only need one simple computer (although some compelling arguments can be made for carrying a backup computer as well, e.g., you're on a multi-day liveaboard vacation where you wouldn't want to sit out any dives). Every now and then, it would be prudent to check your depth, time, and NDL readings against your buddy's computer. Trust the dive computer readings...but verify them.
So, you're looking for a reliable, nitrox-capable, wristwatch-style dive computer, eh?
First of all, you might want to re-think the idea of wearing the computer as a wristwatch on land. It sounds like a good idea, but think about it. Do you really want to be abusing your dive computer on a daily basis as you bang it against stuff in your everyday life? I don't. Even though my Suunto Mosquito is a wristwatch-style computer, I only wear it when I dive. It's been very reliable with absolutely minimal maintenance. After every saltwater dive, I rinse/soak it in fresh water for 15-30 minutes. Over 300+ dives, the only "repair" I've ever had to do is replace the battery.
A simple, reliable wrist-mounted dive computer that I can recommend is the Suunto Zoop. My girlfriend owns the Suunto Gekko, it's predecessor which is essentially identical. It's nitrox-capable, easy-to-use, legible, PC-downloadable, and has a user-replaceable battery. It doesn't have a backlight function, but it does have a phosphorescent display which you can charge up with a dive light. In many ways, the phosphorescent display is actually better than a backlight since the glow persists for quite some time and it doesn't eat into battery life at all. If you do 50-75 dives per year, you can expect the Zoop's battery to last approx. 3 years. Recently, I saw the Zoop on sale at a local Suunto authorized dealer for $225. That's a pretty good deal for a simple nitrox-capable computer. Be forewarned, however, that the Zoop is larger than a wristwatch. You won't be wearing the Zoop topside on a daily basis.
The Aladin Tec 2G is another nitrox-capable computer I would take a look at. It costs a little more than the Zoop, but it comes with more features (gauge mode, 2-gas dives, etc.). It is a wristwatch-style computer, if that's important to you.
Hope this helps.