tddfleming
Contributor
My 12 yr old daughter and I went out this past weekend to do our AOW. We have taken all our classes together and when not in class and we go out and dive at the quarry we are still always together. Kind of like Dee and Dumb.
Anyway, we are always buddys, we decend and ascend together, and check on each other throughout the dive with the OK hand sign. We are almost always within arms length of each other. If not shoulder to shoulder.
Anyways, when we were split into buddy pairs, and then given a number which was our number in line behind the inst. We were number 2 on this dive. It was the inst out in front, the guy pair in front of us, then there was another guy pair behind us. Then the DM bringing up the rear. The 2 in front of us, one had a buoyancy issue and went slowly to the surface, we kind of held back and was pointing to the surface when the inst turned around and only saw one of them. The inst asked the one still down with us where his buddy was, (with hand signs of course) his buddy had not clue and started to just keep swimming, but inst stopped him and asked again. This person had no clue his buddy was missing or cared where his buddy had gone when he noticed he was missing. This is not the first time I have seen this behavior. Saw it in my OW class, have seen it when tagging along with other classes. Have also read about it here many times on SB. There just seems to be no concept of how this system works for some and others seem to take it very serious. Why????
So as I observed this this past weekend, a thought ran through my head. I take my buddy team very serious, why, it is my daughter. I stick to her like glue and she does the same for me. We help each other out UW, if one of us has any issues like starting to ascend, the other will reach in and help. I would like to think this is how the system was designed to work. I have a personal responabilty to her and myself to keep us as safe as we can be. Would I be this serious if buddied with someone else? I would like to think so.
But what makes the other folks, not take it serious? My best guess is that there is no personal responsibility for the other person, your buddy. But I would also think there is more to this than just the responsibility of the other person. These were just to strangers that were paired together for the weekend.
I also would not allow my daughter be paired with someone from our classes, after the things that I have seen as far as the buddy system goes.
We should not be singing in our heads, "just keep swimming, Just keep swimming."
I posted here for all the new divers like myself to think about when you are next paired up with someone.
There is just some of us to take it serious and others who do not.
Anyway, we are always buddys, we decend and ascend together, and check on each other throughout the dive with the OK hand sign. We are almost always within arms length of each other. If not shoulder to shoulder.
Anyways, when we were split into buddy pairs, and then given a number which was our number in line behind the inst. We were number 2 on this dive. It was the inst out in front, the guy pair in front of us, then there was another guy pair behind us. Then the DM bringing up the rear. The 2 in front of us, one had a buoyancy issue and went slowly to the surface, we kind of held back and was pointing to the surface when the inst turned around and only saw one of them. The inst asked the one still down with us where his buddy was, (with hand signs of course) his buddy had not clue and started to just keep swimming, but inst stopped him and asked again. This person had no clue his buddy was missing or cared where his buddy had gone when he noticed he was missing. This is not the first time I have seen this behavior. Saw it in my OW class, have seen it when tagging along with other classes. Have also read about it here many times on SB. There just seems to be no concept of how this system works for some and others seem to take it very serious. Why????
So as I observed this this past weekend, a thought ran through my head. I take my buddy team very serious, why, it is my daughter. I stick to her like glue and she does the same for me. We help each other out UW, if one of us has any issues like starting to ascend, the other will reach in and help. I would like to think this is how the system was designed to work. I have a personal responabilty to her and myself to keep us as safe as we can be. Would I be this serious if buddied with someone else? I would like to think so.
But what makes the other folks, not take it serious? My best guess is that there is no personal responsibility for the other person, your buddy. But I would also think there is more to this than just the responsibility of the other person. These were just to strangers that were paired together for the weekend.
I also would not allow my daughter be paired with someone from our classes, after the things that I have seen as far as the buddy system goes.
We should not be singing in our heads, "just keep swimming, Just keep swimming."
I posted here for all the new divers like myself to think about when you are next paired up with someone.
There is just some of us to take it serious and others who do not.