TSandM:Well, I think of an emergency as something that goes wrong that needs urgent, appropriate action, and if mishandled, can have serious negative consequences. (I make my living handling them.) This was a minor emergency by virtue of where we were and who was there, but the same malfunction could have been a bigger emergency in other circumstances.
I see.... Maybe that's another way we're not that different. Of course you have people's lives in your hands so "emergency" might be the right word. I also deal with a lot of urgent problems that need appropriate action and could have serious negative consequences if not handled correctly but usually the action involves me standing on the table swinging a magic lasso made from other people millions around my head screaming "BRING IT ON YOU YELLOW BELLIED *******S....JUST TRY TO GET IN MY WAY AND YOU'LL KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO STICK YOUR HEAD IN A WARP CORE BREACH...." LLOOOOL.. It's a great job and fortunately I'm in a position to keep a professional sense of humor when all the meters are flat-lining...... At my work we generally use the word "issue" when you would say "emergency".
In any event, perhaps it's something to consider. Your choice of words can often have a strong influence in how you experience an event. Just reading back through your first post, I probably would have used the word "moment".
Just a thought.
At any rate, it was the first significant "bad thing" that's happened to me while diving.
As far as the valve thing goes, earlier in the dive, I had spent several minutes attempting to accomplish a valve drill. That included eventually unbuckling the harness and trying to shove the tank up so I could reach it, as well as adding air to my drysuit to increase my mobility, and having my buddy guide my hand to the valve in case I just had the wrong idea about where it was. I got my fingertips on the valve, but no grip. We spent some time afterward talking about what I can change to try to make it go better. Steve says I've got plenty of range of motion in the shoulder itself.
Look, Lynne. When the **** is hitting the fan you need your hand on the valve.....
period.
Do what ever it takes you get your hand on that valve. Shove the tank up, pitch forward, throw open the waist buckle, pull on the wing, tuck your elbow in and push it back with the other hand but get your hand on that valve. You can do it. You might not know it yet becasue you're stuck in a tunnel vision that says you should look look good shutting down your left post while giving the hang-loose sign with your right hand and lighting a cigar for the celebration of your MTV moment when you hit the surface to the sound of hysterical fans..... The real risk in this isn't looking bad. The real risk is refusing to do it becasue you want to look good before you start to believe in yourself. In other words, don't be someone who would rather drown than look sloppy...... just think about that.
R..