Also, you have less than 20 dives and have taken both Advanced Open Water and Nitrox???????!!!!! I have heard of this before and I must say that is an inexcusable practice by instructors who know better. It is so much better to take your beginning class and dive at that level as you practice, enjoy, and work out the bugs and details of diving (such as proper weighting/buoyancy).
I plead guilty to the same "offense". I did my OW while on an extended trip in SE-Asia. I REALLY liked it, during the course I was paired with the same buddy for all the dives, we got along well together and decided to do AOW right after since we were both really comfortable in the water and were having a good time. Look at it this way, the course is 5 dives, 2 of them are Deep & Navigation, then you choose 3 amongst a bunch of cool things... we did night, PBB & Computer/MultiLevel. I knew I was doing those with a good buddy (and the shop was nice too), it looked really interesting, too interesting not to do it now, and it's 5 more training dives where you can get feedback from an instructor. Of all those things only deep could be considered maybe something you wouldn't want a beginning diver to learn.
Diving deep isn't "hard" but it requires awareness of what you're doing (watch your gas, have a sensible plan, understand narcosis and how it could affect you, ...) would you rather experience that during a proper course? Or with a DM that will lead you there with minimal preparation because it's low season and they would rather have you on the boat than off the boat? I guarantee you that OW divers will go deeper than 60' before AOW if they don't do it soon after the course, especially if diving in SE-Asia. I know this sounds like a stupid argument for doing the deep dive, but I think it's better to be trained early than just wing it with a DM.
Now about nitrox (which I did right after AOW), at that point I wanted to do a liveaboard on the similian islands and I thought nitrox would be a good skill to add, it would enable me to do more/longer dives in the context of a liveaboard. What's so complicated about nitrox that you need further dive experience before doing the class? Nothing you learn while diving will help you understand how to compute EAD, MOD, pp02 and track your CNS clock. The actual diving is the same. The planing is different, but it's just a bit of math (I did my first nitrox dives post certification by calculating EAD, and then using a standard dive table to plan them, wasn't complicated at all), you either get the maths or you don't no amount of diving will help you with that. And I'd even add, doing the nitrox cert introduces you to more concepts like oxygen toxicity that while not a concern for rec OW dives is always good to know about.
I understand that the skill level of divers will vary after their OW cert, and that some divers will barely be able to do a dive properly (I witnessed that on my 1st dive in Phi Phi, poor girl just couldn't control her position in the water column the DM had to fight hard to prevent her from popping to the surface every 2 minutes) but sometimes the training work and the students are ready to move on. Now if the course could be named "Open Water II" that would be much more representative of what it is in real life. I once got asked if I was an 'advanced' diver, I had around 50 dives, AOW/nitrox and some other specialties, I just couldn't get to declaring myself advanced. I think that at that point for 50 dives I had covered a variety of diving scenarios (from 28C to 0C water temperature, from crystal clear water to really bad vis, from 0 current to fairly strong, some boat dives, some shore dives, boardies, wetsuit, drysuit, ice dives, night dives, lakes dives, river dives, ocean dives some drift dives, some dive in current where you have to get back where you started, reefs, wrecks, mud, ...) but 50 dives is not a lot of experience when you think about it. I eventually figured out the other person just wanted to know if I had done AOW, and had to declare myself an 'advanced' diver to that person.
I'd like to add something about dive charters and new divers. It seems all areas do it differently, and you don't know what you don't know, so when you're booking dives, don't hesitate to ask questions about how things are handled, it'll help you know what you're getting into. My first charters were in SE-Asia, where it's group diving following the DM (with some buddy pairing by the DM if you were not traveling with a buddy), the DMs were quite attentive to the whole group. The next boat ride was on the St-Lawrence for the FQAS cert, different but somewhat similar since we had a DM observing us and having us do some skills (the joy of diving in Quebec). After that it was in Florida, I knew from having talked to other divers and from reading threads on scubaboard, that it would be buddy dives, with no DM in the water, so as soon as I got on the boat I asked the DM if he knew any diver that needed a buddy, both times the DM hooked me up with another diver and we made some plans before going in. It's not hard to buddy up with somebody on a dive boat, but do something about it if you want it to happen, ask the DM, talk to the other divers, ... don't just sit there and wait till 30 seconds before stepping into the pool.
Forgot to also mention that...
- It was November in NJ so water temps in low 50s
- The guy was wearing a 3mm suit and no gloves
- Pretty sure he didn't have a light (140' off NJ on an overcast day is basically a NIGHT dive)
Oh yeah, he was also diving a rebreather he recently bought on Craig's List and "repaired" himself.
!!!! You're joking? Right? So what happened?