Thanks for letting me know that the solution to my problem was put up front early. I guess I missed that.
Perhaps you missed the fact that no single, universal solution has been presented nor agreed upon by all who've cared to post to this thread.
A quarter of you still think that I'm not owed anything.
Well, for those of you who care, here's why I didn't simply take care of this by having my credit card company deal with this:
-I believe that the employee is the person most to blame for all of this mess. Hurting the shop will not harm him, it will harm the owner.
-From what I can tell, the owner is a fairly nice guy - he doesn't seem particularly smart, nor involved enough in his own business, but he does seem nice. He's taking everything his employee tells him as being 100% true - anyone who did that would think that I'm the real 'nightmare customer' some of you make me out to be.
-Darn near all of you whine and moan about what a low profit business running a dive shop is. While I don't feel any sympathy for anyone who chooses to run a business that has the problems of profitability that you all say LDS's have, I am MORE THAN HAPPY to pitch in a little and help out if I can - for example, I charged the classes to my Visa, rather than my preferred American Express card because I know that Visa charges lower fees. Lower fees = higher profit for the dive shop (small though they may be), and so it was fine with me. I bought ALL of my equipment from the LDS, and I bought what he reccomended, regardless of the cost - that's why I have the super snazzy fins instead of the regular ol' ones. (and yes, they're gray, AND they look cool!
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-Similarly, the LDS owner, in one of his brief moments of clarity, explained to me that it's very expensive for the shop to fight a disputed charge. I didn't want it to come to that UNLESS THERE WAS NO OTHER OPTION.
I'd tell those of you who don't appreciate that where to go, but I've been chastised once for that.
I would appreciate it, however, if anyone could explain to me how something like [EDIT: A crass acronym for shut the -expletive deleted-up /EDIT] is in any way worse than someone telling me to "Sh...or get off the pot!!!"
Oh, one more thing Mr. Jar, pointing out Alikat's obvious overly emotional/not-quite-logical assessment of the situation is NOT an ad hominem attack. His/Her maturity is directly linked with his/her ability to respond logically, therefore the response was merited.
It WAS mean, and that may have been out of line, however, as previously stated, I don't think it was one bit worse than what s/he said to me.
If you can honestly say that you think Alikat's comments (or yours for that matter) were in any way 'cordial and respectful' well then, let's just say I have a lot more concern about how you treat your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/dog than you imply you have with how I treat mine.
Hopefully this isn't too over the line:
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Finally, while this whole situation is a real pain, it's only a pain for the relatively few moments each day that I have to deal with it.
I spend the time I spend posting here because I've been curious to understand this situation better - I want to know how unusual it is, and I'm curious what other people's opinions are - that however IN NO WAY means that I have to like crudely expressed opinions, and I will continue to express my disdain for those who utter them, especially when they're dead wrong.