It sounds from your description like maybe that cylinders marked "32" and the cylinders marked "nitrox" are different cylinders? Justs to clarify for those who aren't aware, "nitrox" indicates that the cylinder has been cleaned for oxygen use and should not be filled except from a source that has been filtered for oxygen clean use. There might be air in the cylinders, might be 100% O2. "32" indicates that there is 32% nitrox in there, and while putting 32% into a cylinder not marked "nitrox" is certainly not best practice, there is nothing inherently dangerous about it if it was filled from banked nitrox. Pretty sloppy though, and I would be suspicious of a shop that did that. As others have said, you do need to analyze your mix, and the shop is obligated to provide the means to do that.
Curious, since many on Scubaboard argue against the octo-inflator concept because of difficulty controlling buoyancy while ascending with it, how did that go? You didn't mention any difficulty so I assume it went fine?
What would your expectations be for a buddy? It seems to me that pairing a relatively inexperienced diver with another relatively inexperienced diver is common. I'm not saying it's optimal. When I'm diving alone I have pretty low expectations for instabuddies, and being paired with a new diver would fall within my parameters for acceptability.
The "No you don't" statement was confrontational, plus rude and condescending.
I had no issues with ascending, had my weight just right so little air needed for maintaining good bouyancy, I just dumped. Yeah, I meant to say safety, but I have been on my couch for the last three days getting over the nastiest flu I've ever had, I'd get your shots now if I were you guys (or ladies, or gender fluid/neutral).
My expectations, well, honestly, I normally will dive with my wife, but this past dive was supposed to be with a friend of mine who is a PADI instructor with a ton of experience, but he didn't get on the boat so I was stuck with what I had; thus, I don't have expectations. In fact, I guess I wouldn't mind being paired with a newish diver, as I get more experienced, I figure sharing of experience is a good thing, given they want to learn, perhaps I am more open to helping others, given it doesn't impede my enjoyment, or safety, under water.
Perhaps, in the future, when I treat this yakking issue, I'll do better to discuss this stuff since my head won't be over the side of a crappy boat. Then again, I am not going on dives with boats super cramped ever again, I'd pay another $100 for a nicer boat, with more room, and visibility forward.