mikeferrara, i don't know what your dive experience is, but your technique doesn't sound very realistic for most divers. no offense intended. in fact, it blows my mind that we are even having this discussion in this day and age of diving. and i can tell you, that it is hard for me to believe that you are getting as much out of your dive as i am, when you are sitting down there and doing calculations, instead of enjoying all of the marine life.
the big problem with the original question is that one word used, "necessary".
is a washer and a dryer necessary? are forks and spoons necessary? is a car necessary? is it necessary to have a roof over your head every night? are shoes necessary? none of those things are necessary, but they sure make life a lot easier and nicer for us to go about our daily lives. the same is true with using a dive computer.
why would anyone want to carry tables with them, and re-plan their dives as they go? because i can tell you, as one of the more experienced persons on this board, people rarely if ever dive their exact plans. once you hit the water, things change. the marine life rarely cooperates with our dive plan. they go to different area's and depths. this is one of the biggest reasons to have a good computer. it recalculates your profile, in real time, as you go, which can help keep you from ending up diving at the limits. also, how many times have people gotten caught up in looking at something really cool, and made a mistake in their plan, because they weren't paying attention. this is actually very common, and without a computer it is very likely that you won't even realize it, therefore not take steps to correct it. the computer keeps you in line, and even advises you on different things, like deep stops.
unlike a lot of people on this board, i dive every single day. and almost all of those days i am taking people diving with me. so having a computer to make sure that things are done properly, is just sound thinking. also, with human error being what it is, how easy is it for the common person to make a mistake while planning their dive with the rdp? the chances of that mistake goes up considerably when re-planning underwater. when i'm diving, i want to dive, not do calculations, where i am taking my attention off of the actual dive, or the marine life around me. i wonder if mike has ever heard of perceptual narrowing? if you are down there trying to make calculations, there is also the chance of getting into trouble because you are concentrating on the calculations, and not what is happening on the dive. besides, having to do that is so 70's and 80's. yaba daba dooooo!!!!!! fred flintstone!!!!!!
get with the program people, this is the 21st century! while i in no way subscribe to the mentality of the shop owner who treated the original poster poorly, i do agree with what she was trying to say, even though she went about it completely wrong. that's NOT to say that if you don't use a computer you are stupid, but unless your doing 30 to 40 foot square profile dives, you aren't really being very smart, in my opinion.
i hope no one is offended by any of my statements, they weren't meant to offend. but i have been at this since 1980, and i am now in samoa, which is my 35th country living and/or working in this industry. if you are going to dive two or three times a year on vacation, then it probably isn't going to be cost effective to buy a computer. but if you are going to dive regularly, i would advise buying a decent computer, and will not insult you if you don't.
as far as mike having a sure proof way of doing all of this without a computer, that is good for him, and i don't doubt him. but this discussion is for many people who just started diving (ie the original poster), or people who don't have that skill. while making my argument, i am not considering rather mike can or can't actually do what he says he can. he probably can. i'm trying to think about all of the people who are reading this, that can't do what mike does, or who wouldn't want to bother, since a good computer can do all of it for you, quickly and thoroughly. so i am just trying to think about the common diver, not just one person who cares to do it the old way. i hope this helps.