I don't think you and Jim are talking about the same thing. Both piston and diaphragm regs would behave the same with regards to IP and seat wear. The upstream/downstream bias determines the way tank pressure affects IP, but not the way seat wear affects IP. In both cases, if there is a deepening groove in the soft seat, the spring will need to be compressed a bit more to form the seal, which means IP must go up.
Perhaps Jim is talking about the common thing that happens with a brand new seat, which is that until there is a 'set' in the seat that forms an excellent seal with the hard orifice (or piston), the seating force (which is IP) is a little higher. Then, when the seat breaks in a bit and there's a good mating between seat and orifice, it takes less force to form a leak-proof seal. So you might pressurize a freshly serviced 1st stage and initially see that IP creeps a bit or is a little higher, but after a few dozen cycles and maybe several minutes pressurized, it stabilizes a bit lower.
To be honest, I'm not sure exactly what people on this thread are referring to with regards to seat wear causing an increase in IP. Personally, after working on regulators for about 20 years, I have rarely seen IP simply rise as the seat wears. What I experience is that IP starts to creep a little, becoming less stable as the seat wears. As the seal between seat and orifice (or piston) degrades. IP does go up, but in my experience it's usually more like a mushy lock up with some creep, and then finally settling at a slightly higher number, but not consistently. Maybe other people have different experiences.