On the original topic, I know that I am grateful for every bad experience that ended well. Most of mine happened as a newly certified diver following the 'experienced diver' or instructor/DM. I found very quickly that hundreds and hundreds of dives may mean a diver is lucky instead of skilled.
As for OOA, my wife had an instructor run low on air during a class and had to share. My wife assumed this meant dive over, time to ascend but the instrutor signalled her to stay at the bottom. They came up later and the instructor explained that she didn't want to breath down her pony while waiting for the two missing students. The two missing students were me and a friend whose dry suit burst a seal. We aborted and waited for a minute or two for the others at the surface before getting him to shore and warmth.
As for OOA, my wife had an instructor run low on air during a class and had to share. My wife assumed this meant dive over, time to ascend but the instrutor signalled her to stay at the bottom. They came up later and the instructor explained that she didn't want to breath down her pony while waiting for the two missing students. The two missing students were me and a friend whose dry suit burst a seal. We aborted and waited for a minute or two for the others at the surface before getting him to shore and warmth.