I've held off posting, as most of the suggestions have been on point.
Medically speaking, almost everything has been covered well. But let's look at what the determinants are of minimizing your RMV.
Decreased Exercise/CO2 production - covered
Trim - covered
Dead space ventilation - hinted at, but let's talk about it more.
Your mouth, throat, trachea and brochii play no role in gas exchange. Your second stage adds a touch more dead space that makes it worse.
Now, getting your RMV divided into just two breaths per minute is indeed a very effective way to minimize dead space ventilation, but at already-described costs to buoyancy, especially in confined spaces. And possible CO2 retention has been mentioned several times.
Breathing technique is more important, and shallow breaths with a second stage in your mouth are the wrong approach, because they merely exchange a larger fraction of your breath that is not coming from deep in the alveoli, but rather just exchanging back and forth in the "dead space". Worse, that dead space gas acquires CO2 by diffusion from adjacent molecules and traps oxygen that should be going all the way down to your alveoli.
So, the primary things that matter are to dump as much CO2 as you can by a full exhalation, and minimize the fraction of your breath wasted as dead space (fixed size, maybe 150-250cc) by using a full breath (1000-2000cc), instead of a shallow breath (400-600cc).
Lying here asleep, the average 70kg guy's RMV is about 0.14CFM (4000 cc/min)
Mathematically, if your RMV is an excellent 0.4CFM, you can see already that there's a lot extra going on: exercise/CO2 production and exchanging dead space biggest among them. With that wasted ventilation, it makes sense to do it as little of it as possible. But the difference in dead space ventilation between 4 big breaths/min and 12 somewhat smaller bpm is just not the biggest piece of your RMV.
Exercise production of CO2, and getting rid of it, is bigger. And you can't decrease your RMV by breathing less (CO2 retention).
So my 2 cents?
Go slow, go flat, breathe deeply as often as you need to, and enjoy the dive.
Diving Doc