Touching on the OP’s OP:
I dive alone. I like it that way. I crave it. The wife freaked out the first time I dove a New Jersey back bay at 2 AM. I reassured her that there were just as many divers looking out for me then as there are on a sunny Saturday afternoon at Dutch springs. She doesn’t get it. Most people don’t. Now, I do it regularly, exclusively. Meticulous. There is no imagined “buddy” to cover an oversight or prop me up. There is beauty in that. Get it right for you alone or don’t even show up.
My son and I used to dive Willow Springs in the winter. Gate slams shut and locks. Who you gonna call? There should be a card for that. See pic.
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