I applaud you for thinking about questions before starting your course. As Ray mentioned, you may be over-thinking just a bit, but that is generally a good thing for someone getting ready to take a course - I would much rather have prepared learners, with
lots of questions, than silent lumps, sitting in chairs waiting for the experience to end so they can get a card. I think it is good you are taking a class - the idea of setting your PPO limit in your DC to 1.5, simply to get to a somewhat greater depth without the annoying alarm, is probably not a wise decision, and you will (hopefully) understand why after taking the course.
Any one that had taken the IANTD and PADI as well ???, it seems that they are very different since their depth's limitations of each agency course programs are not the same, any hints on this ???
I teach the PADI course, but have not taken the IANTD course, so my comments may be misinformed. But, I would be quite surprised if the two courses were 'very different' in terms of the partial pressure / depth limits. There is fairly general agreement on PPO limits of 1.4 and 1.6 as the 'MOD' and 'CON' limits for 'working' portions of a dive - the Maximum Operating Depth and the Contingency Depth. How the material is presented may vary according to agency, for that matter according to instructor. But the principles of physics and physiology (as tursiops mentioned) should remain the same. As several posters have mentioned, it is preferable to look at the PPO limits, NOT at particular depth limits, because the depth that can be reached while remaining within the 1.4 PPO limit will vary according to the percentage blend. And, even though there is general agreement, abiding by a MOD of 1.4 is not an absolute guarantee of safety, rather it is a relative assurance. An additional resource that you might want to review - before your class - is an article in the DAN Alert Diver journal in December 2013:
http://www.alertdiver.com/Oxygen_Toxicity. I now assign this as required reading before my PADI Enriched Air class. (In particular, note the very last paragraph.)
I do think that many enriched air training programs are also putting much less emphasis on 'standard' mixes than before. While there is historical precedent (albeit somewhat arbitrary) for 32% and 36% mixes, many fill operations, at least in the US, have broadened their approach. For example, several years ago I did an informal survey here on SB and found that, particularly along the Atlantic coast, banking of 30% was increasingly common. For years I worked in a shop that did exactly that - we used 30% because it provided divers with better access to many of our coastal wrecks that lie in the 100-120ft range. In addition, we could easily 'blend down' from our banked 30%, to provide a lighter mix if requested.
High volume Caribbean resort operations are less likely to provide alternate blends for individual divers. It is simply a bit more labor intensive than mass production, it does require additional training of staff, and the chance for error is somewhat greater. In contrast, a good LDS with competent good mixing capabilities might be more likely / willing.
Let us know how your course goes. Ask as many questions as you need to feel comfortable with the material.