I understand some of you guys wouldnt want to dive with me
at least not until Im more experienced. Yet I dont think lack of experience is the only reason we newsby become «dangerous» under water. Proper planning, briefing and confidence matter. Perharps even more so for those of us who know we dont know.
OK, heres my (long) story :
A month ago, I went to Hurghada, Egypt, to dive the Red Sea. Im only OW, 15 dives in my log-book, and since I live in Paris, France, I hadnt been diving for 11 months. Upon arrival, I asked the dive op that worked with my hotel to follow some advanced ow courses (especially buyancy) but they hadnt scheduled any. So I asked for a refreshing course before actually going on a «real» dive but they told me not to worry, all dives are led by certified DMs and instructors, and we always do a briefing during the 1-hr boat ride and so on
So I book for 6 dives, rent the equipment (surprise : I get a BCD filled with salt water
thats reassuring) and get on the boat with 30 other people. There were 2 briefings :
1- Take off your shoes and dont get inside the boat while wet.
2- OK, reefs in front of you, go this way, at this depth, turn around when tank is half empty, you, you, you and you, come with me. Get your suits on and lets go.
Im not kidding : there were no review of signals, no mentionning the 10 other boats surrounding us, no talking about ascend procedures, no checking our equipment and no buddy assignment!
Next thing I know, everyone is in the water but me, as Im frantically checking my gear for the 4th time. Oh, and I also have the hardest time putting on my socks and fins, as the ones they gave me are not my size
By the time I get into the water (while the DM keeps on urging me to hurry up and stop stressing), Im actually quite stressed out. I descend slowly, partly because my BCD has trouble emptying itself (yes, I had taken the water out of it before hand), partly because my mask has a small leak and I have to empty it regularily.
When I reach the DMs depth, Im already lagging behind the group and feeling a bit nervous. I have trouble staying buyant and since Im tiny, my jacket doesnt quite fit and the tank keeps rolling left to right on my back. I use my arms a lot to keep my balance and keep up with the others. OK, you might ask : why didnt you tell them to slow down or signal you were having problems? Well, I didnt think I was doing that bad, I didnt want to spoil the othersdive with what I thought were minor problems, I felt ashamed, and, most importantly, I had totally forgotten what I had been taught about overexhaution. So everytime the DM turned around and signaled are you OK, I fingered OK back to him
Until I had trouble breathing and started to panic and think : Im f*ing gonna die!!!!!!!!
Eventually, I managed to reach the DM and grab his fin and he calmed me down, held my hand thru the rest of the dive and it was OK.
I have another horror story (same place, different DM) to tell but enough for today.
Anyway, my point for both stories is the same :
we «unstadivers» need reassurance. At least I do. When I was learning and diving with my instructor in Mexico, I knew I was just a beginner, yet I always felt safe. Knew that he wouldnt let anything bad happen to me or anyone else under his responsability. Therefore not only could I enjoy the dive, I was also able to concentrate on improving my skills, and felt confident enough to let him know if anything seemed wrong without fear of beeing mocked at.
Ill do my homework and take classes and improve my skills. And please, for those of you who dont like to babysit : feel free to refuse to go under with us. You wouldnt have fun with us, and we wouldnt feel comfortable diving with you.
Cheers
Annlaur