All depends on what he is trying to accomplish. I had a guy that worked for me that told a story about when he was 8 and lived on a dairy farm involving a nursing calf and a buddy. Seemed to think it was ok since he was only 8, I told him "Charles, there are just some skeletons that are better left in the closet, you should have never told me that". For the two and a half years he stayed he was hounded mercilessly with song lyrics changed to reflect things of a bovine nature to a tongue left on his desk. His "secret" was spread among many, many people Almost felt sorry for him at times, almost....
Bigot!