I'm 6'0" and approximately 185 lbs.
Looking at Subsurface stats, my weight use has been between 6 lbs and 20 lbs. I don't dive cold water, but do use wetsuits when it gets chilly.
The 20 lbs is worst case, and was done with a 3mil suit, extra neoprene vest, AL80 tank, and most likely a costume (for an aquarium show) so a bit extra buoyancy.
The 6 lbs was in the summer, and is more typical of my personal gear. Steel tank (then 133), rash guard and swim suit.
On a typical aquarium dive I normally use 17 lbs. This is with an AL80 and 3 mil wetsuit. I could get away with less, but at the shallow depths, and nature of the dives, being a bit negative is preferable. No need to hold at a safety stop.
What others use is not always relevant, as people are all different. However, it can lead to some good questions if a divers usage is significantly higher than a comparable diver in comparable gear. Not saying that the lower weight should be adopted, but that a weight check might be in order. Proper weighting is important, but better to be slightly heavy than slightly light.