Ben_ca
Contributor
ArcticDiver:Good Grief! Have some lost the reason why they dive?
Most everyone I know dives because it is FUN. The remainder started out diving because they had some macho(macha?) thing to prove to themselves. All who have stuck with it do it for fun, or profit.
Who said we aren't having fun? Might want to tone down a little.... sounds like you are coming off the top rope and bashing the DIR crowd... remember this is a DIR friendly zone
ArcticDiver:Being a Groupie to any particular dive philosophy or marketing tactic has no place in the Safe/Fun equation.
Sounds like more bashing to me
ArcticDiver:So, take classes from a wide variety of people. Take suggestions from even a wider variety. but always remember they are only suggestions unless you put a greater weight on them. Use them together with as much practice as can be done. Always seek to improve as defined by each individual diver.
I agree with you here
ArcticDiver:But always remember that no one needs permission to do a particular dive unless on private or regulated property. Also remember that, just like in other businesses, that the seller of gear or instruction may not have your best interests at heart.
Where did this come from?
ArcticDiver:For me: I don't care what a fellow diver's philosophy is. I care that they are a decent human being that can be part of a mutually supporting and fun adventure; that they are honest with me about their comfort level and that I'm honest with them. If they are a little slow, or I'm a little weak; so what? We help each other and we both have fun. I breathe a little more gas than the other person; so what? We are both having fun. They swim slower than me; so what? We are both having fun. We are helping each other get the most of that part of our lives.
I think the "Take away" lesson in this thread is to acknowledge your weaknesses and strengths and make these known to your team (as good team mates they know what your strengths and weaknesses are) and form a team that is greater than individuals