Update:
So we ordered her stuff on Saturday. She really liked the way the Aqualung Zuma fit. She was really disappointed the ML/L size didn't come in pink. She also got an Aqualung Micron, Airsource 3, and we ordered a couple Suunto Zoop 2 gauge consoles with compass.
I'm still looking at Dive Rite stuff. Other branded BP/W are much more expensive. I think I might go with an XTX200...
You can't go wrong with Aqualung, Suunto, Apex, or any brand, it comes down to what you want and like. She will be happy with her gear.
I used to have a jacket BCD, then a Zeagle Escape, followed by a Zeagle Ranger, and now I have 2 bp/w (Aluminum and SS, these are mixture of many different brands). Someday I am going to upgrade to a Halcyon backplate with Cinch Harness, just because I like it. My first dive computer was a Suunto Vyper; that thing lasted me 10 years, and who knows how many hundreds of hours, or maybe a thousand of hours of actual dive time it had on it. I started off with the Vyper in the console, and after 8 years made a switch to wrist mount, just because I wanted too.
I like the Dive Rite gear, can't go wrong with them. My 2 tec wings, harness, can light are Dive Rite, and my recreational wing is Oxycheq with a Zeagle octo/inflator :shocked2:. I would have gotten a Dive Rite Travel EXP wing, if I did not get a good deal on the Oxycheq. If I did it over again, I would not change a thing about my selection of wings and bp setup.
I know folks that spent some money and got the Scubapro bp/w, it looks good, buy as you said it does cost more than the Dive Rite.
I personal could care less of what people buy, but I do care about how they are in the water, whether it's in low viz, or on a coral reef with 100+' of viz. These folks that dropped some coin on the Scubapo bp/w, did not become better divers after their purchase, they were terrible divers but looked good being terrible
. Terrible means they were plowing up the bottom like they were a John Deere plow
, or they are pulling off some kamikaze dive bombing on the bottom, and also because I am arrogant SOB, that thinks I am the
BEST . (waiting for someone to make remark on an Internet Forum about my opinion
).
So buy what you like, and like what you buy.