yes your other calcs will make you neutral at 20 ft with 500 psi
your wing requirements are ....
1. to float you rig alone with a full tank
2. to float you in you gear with a full tank
3. to give you life with the exposure providing minimum lift.
If you are weighted to be neutral at 20 feet with 500 psi, then you will be just the slightest bit positive at the surface with 500 psi with a wetsuit or neutral with no compressible buoyancy. In that case, you only need a 12 lb wing: 6 to float your full tank, 5 for your plate, and 1 for good measure. Add a little more lift for things like lights and heavy cameras.
If all of your weight is on your rig, you'll need enough lift to counter that. If all your weight is on your belt, your exposure suit will counter that at the surface, especially if you are balanced by a negative rig when the wing is empty.
At depth, with compression of your suit, you'd need to be pretty deep in a pretty big suit to really need 23lb of lift. And if you have a failure immediately, with a full tank, a reasonably good swimmer, as any diver should be, can drop a ten pound belt and swim up the rest. As a 12 year old boy scout and then again as a lifeguard in college we had to retrieve a 10-12 pound weight off the bottom of the pool and hold it above our heads at the surface. You'll have the buoyancy of the suit at the surface.
In salt water, everything buoyant will be more buoyant, but really, only the change in the suit's buoyancy needs to be compensated for at depth because your body doesn't compress.
I deliberated long and hard and talked with Bryan about it. My 23# wing ships tomorrow.